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You're being used.
He's getting what he wants without giving anything in return. Communication and trust are essential. You aren't getting either of those. At the same time, he takes your nudes and r ...

Sun Oct 23, 2022 5:26 am • 48 Replies • 11107 Views

What do you want as a dominant?

She asked the Doms a question and the subs where quick to take it over ?

Mon Oct 25, 2021 1:47 am • 34 Replies • 12443 Views

Age does not equal maturity

Hun you've done nothing wrong. Just because someone is older doesn't mean they are more mature. Some people never grow up, remember that.

Fri Sep 10, 2021 7:46 am • 16 Replies • 4340 Views

Should people be discussing politics on a BDSM site?

@ sageFlame
I had no idea you made a post that had people talking politics in it. I just seen a few blogs about abortion rights and guns. So generally wanted to know what others thought about seeing ...

Mon Jun 07, 2021 12:14 pm • 31 Replies • 9164 Views

Should people be discussing politics on a BDSM site?

@ sageFlame

I realize I've not addressed your original question/ post
Diving in:
1. I hear you are concerned. That this site is special and you don't want to see a good place change.
2. I also h ...

Mon Jun 07, 2021 12:09 pm • 31 Replies • 9164 Views

Kneeling next to Dom’s feet at restaurants...

Theres subtle ways of doing public play with out anyone else knowing. For example wearing a collar, walking behind the dominant, fetching anything they need or point towards, bluetooth vibs and cock c ...

Mon Jun 07, 2021 4:26 am • 48 Replies • 21877 Views

Should people be discussing politics on a BDSM site?

I know everyone has freedom of speech. But is it honstly a good idea to be discussing politics on a BDSM dating site?
Facebook and Twitter is already filled with political topics so why bring them i ...

Sun Jun 06, 2021 4:22 pm • 31 Replies • 9164 Views