Do Women find Sissys attractive?

Some women do. Totally a matter of chemistry and personal taste. Women aren't a hive-mind collective, so you're in luck!

Fri Apr 01, 2022 6:26 am • 20 Replies • 8279 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

Hell, I'm a sub, and I constantly get harassed and pressured by sub men to dominate them and be their own personal kink vending machine. I can only imagine how much worse it is from actual dominant wo ...

Sun Jan 10, 2021 12:02 am • 47 Replies • 17970 Views

Help please

I'm so sorry. You are hurting so much right now- I know how it feels to be suddenly dropped by a dom you loved and trusted.

That he freaked out over a background check is... not a good look for him ...

Sun Dec 13, 2020 5:34 pm • 32 Replies • 8597 Views

Top Drop

This isn't a matter of male versus female, lol.

Top drop is real. You may need aftercare of some sort, yourself. You are also going into an altered headspace in a scene, and you are going to "come ...

Fri Jul 31, 2020 7:07 am • 3 Replies • 2768 Views

Re: Does monogamy exist in the D/s world?

Looking for input from everyone. I’ve been living this lifestyle for close to 20 years in some form or fashion. I do not like to share. I have been with Doms who have been very up front about me non ...

Fri Jul 31, 2020 7:00 am • 70 Replies • 26691 Views

Enamored Dominant or Just a Lunatic?

This is a massive econo-pack of red flags. No no nononono no!

You are both still real people with real needs. You cannot possibly know one another well enough, after a few days, to get involved in ...

Mon Nov 04, 2019 5:31 am • 95 Replies • 36870 Views

Courtesy and Dominance

Agreed. In fact, "please" said in just the right voice, with just the right kind of energy, can cause the hair on the back of my neck to stand up, a shiver to slide down my spine, and my pulse to race ...

Fri Mar 15, 2019 11:23 am • 24 Replies • 16911 Views

Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

Personally?

Real life all the way. I have been in the lifestyle in person for over 22 years now. I've done a bit online, but it isn't nearly as gratifying or intense. I want someone who can physica ...

Thu Mar 14, 2019 6:30 am • 70 Replies • 35040 Views

Courtesy and Dominance

End your requests, orders, and questions on a lower note instead of a higher, questioning note. It changes the whole energy of the sentence.

Thu Mar 14, 2019 5:36 am • 24 Replies • 16911 Views

Re: Looks

Just wanted to hear some thoughts from the subs. Does it matter what your dom looks Like? Are you picky about who you would let dominate you in terms of how they look? Fellow doms also feel free to c ...

Wed Mar 13, 2019 12:55 pm • 49 Replies • 27390 Views