Contact with the dom

Cmon people its all just imaginary and not real ...you have no clue to what the other person is. Its just play. never take online interactions seriously and dont get hurt.

No.
That's no excuse fo ...

Sat Jan 06, 2018 3:12 am • 19 Replies • 17821 Views

Question...

Ah, tons of swingers are still around, believe you me!
There is some antipathy between swingers and the BDSM community, but there is plenty of crossover, too.

Fri Jan 05, 2018 9:22 am • 26 Replies • 24269 Views

Respectfully Why Male Subs?

It's an orientation, not a sign of masculinity, or a sign of lack thereof. Really has nothing to do with having a penis or not.
I've met some femme as hell dominarixes. Think they're manly?

Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:48 am • 56 Replies • 56896 Views

A step too far - permanent chastity - celibacy

Sub frenzy is real, yo.
But red flags don't go away when you push past them. You don't want those mental scars, take it from me.

Mon Jan 01, 2018 9:37 am • 12 Replies • 17746 Views

A step too far - permanent chastity - celibacy

Yeah, with very rare exception when someone is truly asexual, denying all sexual pleasure and release is going to cause a lot of mental and emotional distress. If it isn't something you actively want, ...

Mon Jan 01, 2018 8:26 am • 12 Replies • 17746 Views

A step too far - permanent chastity - celibacy

Celibacy is by far not everyone's deal, and it's totally ok to have that be a hard limit for you- even as a slave.

Mon Jan 01, 2018 3:54 am • 12 Replies • 17746 Views

Re: dear my miistress

I like femdom exterme toilet ,sex slave and i wanna be a dog slave for my owner.

Heh, ok. So maybe some subs need training in basic social interaction.

Mon Dec 25, 2017 11:50 pm • 29 Replies • 40959 Views

Slave trade

I'm a human trafficking survivor, but I don't object to the term "slave" in BDSM, as it is consensual and means something entirely different. However... titles and epithets are both earned, and not so ...

Mon Dec 25, 2017 9:35 pm • 12 Replies • 13250 Views

Kinky Holiday Gift Ideas!

We played with the strap tonight, and I loved it! Master loved the side with the heart and rivets, because it made me jump and scream, lol. I loved the OTHER side of it. Something for both of us. :p

Mon Dec 25, 2017 9:55 am • 12 Replies • 12873 Views

Becoming a Dominant on purpose

I agree, honestly. I knew a lot of people who were pro dommes who were not in the lifestyle at all. Being good at it myself was mostly a learned skill- but being a good dom is also a learned skill. I ...

Sun Dec 24, 2017 4:23 am • 7 Replies • 7272 Views