Poly relationship

Hi Cie,

Interesting topic for sure. Here are my thoughts on this;

1) Only if you're comfortable with it.

If I were in your situation, I'd ask for expectations to be set very early on. Think a ...

Sun Aug 07, 2022 1:14 am • 13 Replies • 2521 Views

Why I don't use safewords

I love the mentality, Arach. Trust is not given, it's earned. Carefully reading your partner and caring for their well being is a very sensible way of maintaining that trust and building a safe space ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 10:29 pm • 15 Replies • 6471 Views

Non-sexual traits or things that turn you off

Pretending to be someone you're not.

Thinking only about yourself and your own needs.

Demanding more than you give.

Being ignorant to your surroundings (not giving a fuck is cool, but have yo ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 9:49 pm • 47 Replies • 12034 Views

Has anyone experienced this?

I can't root this in research and science, this is just my opinion. I think it's a cognitive breach. We simplify our surroundings to control our reality. We apply stereotypes so that we don't have to ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 9:33 pm • 13 Replies • 5200 Views

Kneeling next to Dom’s feet at restaurants...

I love how you put your imagination to work and create a scene where you, as a slave, keep your resolve and put pride into pleasing your Master even in a setting like this. I get you, and I like how y ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 9:07 pm • 48 Replies • 16955 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello everyone, I'm Juan.

I bond easily with people who are in touch with who they are and what they want. I've come to realize that the internet is a place where there's no need to hide what drive ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 8:34 pm • 3162 Replies • 998460 Views

Green Flags

Here are some of mine:

Future thinking - they're interested in planning things together with you

Enthusiasm - you can sense their excitement in what they do and how they do it

Sharing - you a ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 8:25 pm • 21 Replies • 7677 Views