HELP

I'm fairly routine, so no need to repeat what is already in my profile (starting with the BDSM & me section) 1st paragraph is normal playtime, second paragraph is punishments.)
But I am a gentlem ...

Mon Apr 16, 2018 1:26 am • 12 Replies • 8467 Views

Lost

Her frustration must have overcome her. She deleted her profile not long after joining the site. She must be extremely impatient. Redkitty, I hope and pray that you can overcome this, wherever you are ...

Fri Mar 16, 2018 7:48 am • 3 Replies • 3094 Views

Brand new to this

And I will add one more thing. If you do have a bad real life experience, don't give up the ship. Move on and start over. These types of relationships can be very complicated due to the difference in ...

Wed Mar 14, 2018 1:47 am • 12 Replies • 9770 Views

Brand new to this

Ditto what Dr T said, but additionally I would caution that you should learn more about yourself and your desires (and potential dislikes) by reading websites such as Taken in hand and Christian domes ...

Wed Mar 14, 2018 1:42 am • 12 Replies • 9770 Views

Weakness

Submission is not weakness. It is beauty and love.
Consider this comparison: In the Old Testament, the Semites were chosen by God to be his people and he crafted a covenant with them (The Ten Command ...

Wed Mar 14, 2018 1:16 am • 12 Replies • 7580 Views

Relationship advice needed

I don't understand why everyone nowadays feels they need to "sugar-coat" or "beat-around-the-bush" especially when talking about important issues. I suggest, at the next available opportunity, come ri ...

Fri Feb 23, 2018 1:55 am • 9 Replies • 6646 Views

Commited people having vanilla and BDSM paralell lives

Okay, I did not read all the reply's to the posters question, but here's the first thing that comes to my mind.
COMMUNICATION. What is the matter with talking to your partner/spouse about what you wa ...

Thu Jan 04, 2018 1:58 am • 12 Replies • 10386 Views

subs don't need "training", Doms do.

This has been very interesting reading.
I disagree with the statement that "there is no such thing as a natural Dom". There are people who are born with dominant characteristics
Dominants inherently ...

Mon Dec 18, 2017 4:53 am • 29 Replies • 35545 Views

A Master's Responsibilities

One more thing I wanted to comment about from Fudbars reply (which is excellent, BTW). In speaking of 24/7 relationships, the characteristics he mentions (clothing choices, meal choices, financial sub ...

Mon Dec 18, 2017 3:30 am • 5 Replies • 6505 Views

A Master's Responsibilities

I went back up and read what Fudbar said about providing aftercare and agree it is essential. Back in the days when I had a girl, I used to lay with her, gently massaging and kissing her breasts, bell ...

Mon Dec 18, 2017 3:15 am • 5 Replies • 6505 Views