Defeated :( Help me

I just checked your profile, and you are very new here by comparison to other members. Now what I'm about to say sucks but bear with me;

It does appear that new profiles, especially new FEMALE prof ...

Sat Oct 09, 2021 12:59 am • 26 Replies • 7187 Views

Question for the D types

So having had a few messages from subs (although I'm about 97% sure the profiles were fake) where the first message was along the lines of "train me and do what you like to me master/daddy/sir" (delet ...

Sun Oct 03, 2021 2:14 pm • 25 Replies • 9498 Views

Things you wish you had known....

Don't worry about what other people MIGHT think because as long as you're respectful of partners boundaries there's nothing wrong with your likes ......

Oh and try and find the local scene to learn ...

Thu Sep 23, 2021 5:36 pm • 40 Replies • 11827 Views

Is it unacceptable to ask a dom for a nude ?

I agree with Miki on this one, it varies from person to person.

I would say that if in the first couple of weeks someone is asking you for nudes and you don't want to send them then don't but a rel ...

Wed Aug 25, 2021 5:24 pm • 32 Replies • 12082 Views

Emotional Investment

Which requires the most emotional investment ... to me this does look like a comparison of apples to oranges but I'll give it my best shot.

Personally I'd say they were all pretty much equal, I mea ...

Sun Aug 22, 2021 5:36 pm • 8 Replies • 2078 Views

Relationship vs Dynamic

I think its possible to combine both, you might find you lean towards one more than the other but I can't see why both aren't possible to combine.

Sun Aug 22, 2021 1:04 am • 14 Replies • 5673 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Actually my screen name had me stumped for about two hours, wanting to not have it similar to any of my other online monikers because people can be odd.

So I got mine from a random nickname generat ...

Mon Aug 09, 2021 5:34 pm • 267 Replies • 105703 Views