Problems with only really getting to dom as a switch

Sounds like she is not really a switch. If she really is only a submissive, talking won't matter.

Sun Aug 17, 2025 6:27 pm • 6 Replies • 4981 Views

Male servants for Lesbian Couples

Your past experience was likely with unicorns

Thu Aug 14, 2025 7:12 pm • 1 Replies • 1626 Views

Is bdsm a high IQ game?

Usually but definitely not always.

Mon Jul 28, 2025 8:45 pm • 16 Replies • 5572 Views

Master/Mistress/Goddess

Simply don't share anything that you can be blackmailed with in the future.

Thu Jul 03, 2025 6:36 pm • 10 Replies • 4688 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Enslave

Sat Jun 21, 2025 5:50 pm • 6707 Replies • 1515778 Views

Dominant women on the rise?

I would hope so

Sat Jun 21, 2025 5:48 pm • 17 Replies • 3912 Views

Enmeshment

A slave making a fake profile using my information would be punished and then released. That's creepy and should be beyond the boundaries set in almost any dynamic.

I have enjoyed some writing a s ...

Mon Feb 03, 2025 7:23 pm • 19 Replies • 3118 Views

How does a dom want boundaries/limits presented

Always want a slave to be honest about pain tolerance and availability for example. As I am not looking for anything extreme, that is usually enough for me.


Honestly and openly.

Mon Feb 03, 2025 7:13 pm • 6 Replies • 1172 Views

Is fear a kink?

Certainly fear of the lash excites many slaves and submissives even many who are not sadists. Seeling that fear does give me a sense of power as well.

Whether or not that makes fear a kink itself o ...

Sun Feb 02, 2025 9:50 pm • 25 Replies • 9418 Views

Consensual Blackmail

Sorry for that incorrect interpretation. The phrasing was general enough to lead me to that possibility

Thu Sep 05, 2024 8:05 pm • 10 Replies • 3632 Views