Hard limits

@Freya369​(switch female),

You hit the nail on the head with your response.

I guess I am being somewhat critical but IMHO (In my humble opinion) I believe she needs to find another dom.

Wed Jun 05, 2019 12:58 am • 18 Replies • 7576 Views

Hard limits

@Freya369​(switch female),

Hard limits are in place for a reason. The sub/slave may have had problems with, lets say, needles. Maybe they were in an accident as a child and spent some amount of t ...

Tue Jun 04, 2019 11:56 pm • 18 Replies • 7576 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

I started my adventure in BDSM over 30 years ago. I learned how to be a Master of my craft from some of the best in the lifestyle and those who are no longer part of this earthly realm.

From being ...

Tue Jun 04, 2019 11:35 pm • 3162 Replies • 1000476 Views

Hard limits

I'm 69 and I've been in this lifestyle longer than many here. One of the things I learned very early on was to FIRST discuss breaking the hard limit and then proceed from there. If the answer is no, ...

Tue Jun 04, 2019 9:22 pm • 18 Replies • 7576 Views

Problems with the Personals

@cyndi lucy, you said a mouthful right there. Not only is it competitive for younger people, but for those of us who are considered...past our prime...it's almost impossible to find a sub/slave, much ...

Sat Jan 27, 2018 1:37 am • 30 Replies • 21966 Views

Problems with the Personals

I think if you look at the actual number of men (Dom and sub) on this or any other site, you will find that men usually out number women by about 3 to 1. So, the probability of there being more men p ...

Thu Dec 28, 2017 6:50 pm • 30 Replies • 21966 Views

Pain

Let me pose this question to you. Have you, honestly, ever met anyone whom you would consider "Normal?" What is normal for you may be the most abhorrent thing to me. Many "vanilla" people consider ...

Fri Dec 08, 2017 8:19 pm • 22 Replies • 15626 Views

When is being Dominant not a good thing?

I've been talking to some people privately on this subject. One of the comments I just made concerned our interactions. "There have been times when my wife has gone off on me and the only repercussi ...

Thu Dec 07, 2017 7:12 am • 8 Replies • 8007 Views

Bondage

I've been on Fetlife for several years and I know from past personal experience that if I want to go to a new area and look for fetish events that I can use the events tab of Fetlife and find several ...

Tue Dec 05, 2017 8:26 am • 9 Replies • 9277 Views

Respectfully Why Male Subs?

I can only respond to this from my perspective as a dominant male.

I've had more than my share of subs/slaves during the past 30 years and the ones whom I find need the submission the most are the ...

Tue Dec 05, 2017 8:14 am • 56 Replies • 53675 Views