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Posts by MissBonnie(dom female){oz}

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I'm in control, but where do I go?

This should be about you and your needs and desires. Yep! I get it you also want him happy but you can do so, without ignoring your own needs. He will enjoy the process MORE if you are enjoying yours. ...

Thu Feb 07, 2019 1:34 am • 3 Replies • 4995 Views

Author

MissBonnie

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Absolute Beginners

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I'm in control, but where do I go?

712

What's your preference and why

No preference.

Edited to add. IK'm more about the person attached to it.

Thu Feb 07, 2019 12:50 am • 12 Replies • 7747 Views

Author

MissBonnie

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What's your preference and why

713

A soft release

I try to keep the belief when starting with some one new...that they are also friends before anything else, its a facet I need to function as a Dominant (hard limit), to that person. If we do part way ...

Sun Feb 03, 2019 11:55 pm • 20 Replies • 11187 Views

Author

MissBonnie

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

A soft release

714

17 years together. Too late to start a BDSM relationship?

Sounds like a fantastic start. Congrats to you both on finding the common ground. Just another word of caution....try not to race ahead of him, travel TOGETHER, side by side. You'll enjoy the whole jo ...

Sun Feb 03, 2019 3:23 am • 5 Replies • 3259 Views

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MissBonnie

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Generally Speaking

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17 years together. Too late to start a BDSM relationship?

715

Fem Faves: Toys

Whaaaaaa! I have pick just one? That is evil! If its only one, can I clump a few together and say restraint toys...ohh ok! Rope. I've picked it because with rope you can make other things from cuffs, ...

Sat Feb 02, 2019 2:28 am • 5 Replies • 5496 Views

Author

MissBonnie

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Fem Faves: Toys

716

Question!?

unfortunately for some (not all) once they stumble on the real deal (someone actually offering ) they freak out. Sorry it didn't go as planned but I'm sure you'll receive many more offers of submissio ...

Wed Jan 30, 2019 1:32 am • 6 Replies • 4074 Views

Author

MissBonnie

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Generally Speaking

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Question!?

717

Just a question

I enjoy the forums here. I've found the staff/owners to be caring and approachable. I find a good balance is here, from every walk of life and level of experience. I often end up lopsided and little o ...

Wed Jan 30, 2019 1:27 am • 7 Replies • 3951 Views

Author

MissBonnie

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Just a question

718

Re: 17 years together. Too late to start a BDSM relationship

He's open to this stuff....to a degree but I was just wondering about some pointers on how to talk about what I want without him thinking that I dnt like what we currently do
.

first off congrat ...

Tue Jan 29, 2019 1:15 am • 5 Replies • 3259 Views

Author

MissBonnie

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Generally Speaking

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17 years together. Too late to start a BDSM relationship?

719

Suggestion Thread

thanks Fud now I need to wipe the coffee off my keyboard lol

Mon Jan 28, 2019 4:34 am • 218 Replies • 117299 Views

Author

MissBonnie

Forum

Technical Support

Topic

Suggestion Thread

720

A Question for Dom/mes, Tops, etc

I have no preference in experience. Like Villanelle mentioned experienced doesn't always mean that "experience" is a fit to my needs or trained my way. Dom/mes are not a one size fits all...

Exper ...

Mon Jan 28, 2019 4:32 am • 8 Replies • 4862 Views

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MissBonnie

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Generally Speaking

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A Question for Dom/mes, Tops, etc