A Serious Question

I’m going to be honest, unless and until I’m in a dynamic…it IS all about me. My natural tendency, left unchecked, is to become absorbed in the needs, wants, and perspective of my partner.
While mee ...

Sun Jun 25, 2023 7:26 am • 13 Replies • 2704 Views

Openness as a challenge to finding relationship

This is a great conversation! So glad you started it Tall and I agree with Yuan that it can be toxic when the other person doesn’t reciprocate. And with Kitten. I’ve learned to be more vulnerable and ...

Sun Jun 25, 2023 7:07 am • 11 Replies • 2163 Views

Where are the pups at?

Sorry to be rude. You're asking "Where the Pups At?" but by a subsequent post you state that you "don't know much about pup play?


Child, what on Earth do you mean?


(I'm Asian and I ...

Wed Jun 14, 2023 1:20 am • 11 Replies • 2288 Views

Where are the pups at?

Taken over by? I never knew much about the history of pup play. But I’d love to know more.
I was hoping all, of pupdom would tap in to say hi, regardless of orientation.

I’m a Little. Lots of us ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 11:38 pm • 11 Replies • 2288 Views

New sub

I love what people have said.
And I do think it’s possible to make some of the solutions work consensually. Not by pissing her off, or manipulating Her. But by being a more attentive, giving partner ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 11:50 am • 24 Replies • 3926 Views

Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

I agree with Tranquil and Knight. But I’m going to treat your question as if you are genuinely asking.
Looking at your profile, I can see a couple of reasons why someone might say they didn’t want t ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 11:32 am • 37 Replies • 4852 Views

Where are the pups at?

hi

Hellooo! I was starting to worry this was a pup free zone! 🥳

Mon Jun 12, 2023 1:33 am • 11 Replies • 2288 Views

black community tap in

Hi,
Do you cover this point in negotiation? We are all different about what we put on our profiles and the reason why or why not.
As I read your post, it seems it was a play date? Or is this som ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 1:24 am • 55 Replies • 11705 Views

Where are the pups at?

*looks under and behind a few things before throwing a mini-tantrum and having a pout*
Are there any pups on here?

Thu Jun 08, 2023 11:10 am • 11 Replies • 2288 Views

black community tap in

Hello!!!!! I have felt sexualized by older White men in this lifestyle. It does feel.....less than in a way. I've encountered those who are married to or publicly with White women but desire Black wom ...

Thu Jun 08, 2023 10:56 am • 55 Replies • 11705 Views