Struggling

As someone that got interested in this just shy of 40 years ago, it obviously took me awhile to grasp what Domination and submission truly is. I 100% agree with Master Richard J's entire post. If your ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 7:47 pm • 24 Replies • 4589 Views

Advice/insights for new bottom(sub?) overwhelmed by emotions

I have often told new subs that more than likely they will fall in love with the first Dom that really turns them on or scratches that itchy. It's hard not to have feelings for someone that all of the ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 9:01 am • 18 Replies • 3621 Views

Contacted By a Sub female

complete and total scam. I have been online since 1993 and have seen this hundreds of times and it's always one BS reason after another.

Fri Aug 26, 2022 10:52 pm • 12 Replies • 2756 Views

Teaching about BDSM

I would put myself in the category of the friend more than the poster. With that said, maybe I could piggy back on the post itself. I'm learning the ropes here and my question to those does who read ...

Tue Aug 16, 2022 9:59 pm • 6 Replies • 1406 Views

Hypnosis

Usually I try not to actually call someone out by name because then the point tends to get lost in a flame war and nobody learns a thing. So I will admit it is sort of generalized to a degree so as no ...

Tue Aug 16, 2022 9:42 pm • 42 Replies • 7539 Views

Teaching about BDSM

Oh, I should add one more thing. A LOT of the time, a new sub WILL either develop deep feelings or straight out fall in love with their first Dominant. MANY of us have the same story, I knew I was "Di ...

Mon Aug 15, 2022 9:49 pm • 6 Replies • 1406 Views

Teaching about BDSM

I love teaching new subs and such. Two things I try to do right away is have them look at the 9 levels of submission. It lists from mild to slave. As I tell them, there is NO right or wrong answer, it ...

Mon Aug 15, 2022 9:30 pm • 6 Replies • 1406 Views

Hypnosis

OK, so I have followed this thread for awhile and figured I would finally throw my $.02 worth.

I have been interested in Hypnosis for 6 years so do not consider myself a "Licensed therapist", but I ...

Mon Aug 15, 2022 9:16 pm • 42 Replies • 7539 Views

being rude

So i am gonna jump back in on here and maybe give some insight to what "I" think a Dominant should be thinking when talking to a new person. Notice I said "person". Until your MY sub, you just some ne ...

Sat Aug 06, 2022 9:23 pm • 35 Replies • 7440 Views

Words of regret

That's why I hate texting for any conversation that has any importance at all. It happens to me ALL the time and drives me up the wall.

Mon Jul 25, 2022 6:06 pm • 12 Replies • 2483 Views