Sexual experience needed?

I might offer a little different slant than, Fud, though he is certainly on track and offering excellent observations.

Perhaps I am more loosy-goosy in new relationships, so my feelings might not ...

Sat Oct 27, 2018 6:16 pm • 10 Replies • 6416 Views

What are other methods for pain, nothing permanent, when playing?

I'd suggest a suede leather (genuine) tailed flogger for all around use. If you want harder thugs and bruises on top of redness, look for a rawhide type leather flogger with heavier wider tails....Th ...

Mon Oct 22, 2018 12:26 am • 20 Replies • 11286 Views

What are other methods for pain, nothing permanent, when playing?

Nobody has yet mentioned 'figging' for a different sort of pain....For some it is tolerable, for others it can be nearly intolerable --well into pain, with no marks and nothing lasting more than hour ...

Sun Oct 21, 2018 4:21 am • 20 Replies • 11286 Views

New Sub

WOW! Well done, Kara ! I don't see how anyone could post a more complete and inclusive answer to this question than you just offered. Clearly took a good while to put all that together in one pac ...

Sat Oct 20, 2018 9:55 pm • 10 Replies • 7090 Views

Cyber/solo-sub/dom-space/drop??¿

Ivy said "I can't spank myself or do anything that needs a partner." I think several of my online subs would raise eyebrows at that very limiting feeling.

A beautiful pink glow CAN certainly be ...

Sat Oct 20, 2018 4:29 am • 9 Replies • 6566 Views

Nipples!

Nobody has yet mentioned my fave--simple basic bobby pins..... not as hard as clothes pins, but adjustable by how far they are pushed on....AND if the loop of the bobby pin is down, ends up, then s ...

Tue Oct 16, 2018 4:46 pm • 23 Replies • 17334 Views

Too old to be a Daddy?

You know, your profile need not give a specific age...You need only to identify yourself as "an older and mature Daddy Dom" and you will attract some interesting Littles... specific ages need never ...

Fri Oct 05, 2018 1:27 am • 40 Replies • 23760 Views

Scared friend away with my confession

The advice you've been repeatedly give to let it lie a while while she processes is sound and well worth following.

It is too late in this case, of course, but I might note that this feeling of w ...

Fri Sep 28, 2018 11:15 pm • 18 Replies • 8280 Views

Sensual Doms

Well, Ms Secrets, I'll go first since I've long identified as a sensual Dom. Perhaps at the heart of this label is about enjoying the arousal of a sub through her ability to enjoy emotional caresse ...

Sat Sep 08, 2018 6:07 pm • 2 Replies • 4078 Views

Does Money Matter?

I can't ever remember once that money has played any role in a relationship of mine. Of course I've only been in online relationships, so the chances for income to matter is much reduced. Still, I ...

Thu Aug 30, 2018 10:37 pm • 95 Replies • 49137 Views