Nipples!

Nobody has yet mentioned my fave--simple basic bobby pins..... not as hard as clothes pins, but adjustable by how far they are pushed on....AND if the loop of the bobby pin is down, ends up, then s ...

Tue Oct 16, 2018 4:46 pm • 23 Replies • 15612 Views

Too old to be a Daddy?

You know, your profile need not give a specific age...You need only to identify yourself as "an older and mature Daddy Dom" and you will attract some interesting Littles... specific ages need never ...

Fri Oct 05, 2018 1:27 am • 40 Replies • 21494 Views

Scared friend away with my confession

The advice you've been repeatedly give to let it lie a while while she processes is sound and well worth following.

It is too late in this case, of course, but I might note that this feeling of w ...

Fri Sep 28, 2018 11:15 pm • 18 Replies • 7134 Views

Sensual Doms

Well, Ms Secrets, I'll go first since I've long identified as a sensual Dom. Perhaps at the heart of this label is about enjoying the arousal of a sub through her ability to enjoy emotional caresse ...

Sat Sep 08, 2018 6:07 pm • 2 Replies • 3662 Views

Does Money Matter?

I can't ever remember once that money has played any role in a relationship of mine. Of course I've only been in online relationships, so the chances for income to matter is much reduced. Still, I ...

Thu Aug 30, 2018 10:37 pm • 95 Replies • 43882 Views

slave vs submissive...

Nice work, Bunnie! You collected some nice variations on an always confusing fine line. The effort you put into collecting these links should be of value to many here in The Cage.

Thu Aug 30, 2018 1:36 pm • 14 Replies • 7551 Views

Seeking a Dominant mentor for task ideas

You might consider requiring a daily 'Journal" message of her thoughts regarding her submission, her daily life, questions and observations. This daily thoughtful message and your answers helps to c ...

Wed Aug 29, 2018 12:25 am • 12 Replies • 10458 Views

18 THOUSAND Members

I just noticed the counter roll over into the 18,000th member here in The Cage... Just wanted to pass along a warm Congrats to our two staffies and any others behind the scene...

Well Done

Fri Aug 10, 2018 9:33 pm • 1 Replies • 3067 Views

Suggestion Thread

Hi Cagers--

I find it most irritating that there does not appear to be any way to keep a draft of a message in progress. If you forget, and , say, go to see a new message popping up--GONE!

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Fri Aug 10, 2018 9:30 pm • 218 Replies • 104007 Views

Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

One problem in reaching out and finding a close fit is being too eager--on both sides.

After searching around for a while (maybe even only a little while) both Dom and sub are primed and ready fo ...

Wed Jul 18, 2018 11:20 pm • 149 Replies • 96178 Views