What characteristics do you look for in a potential dom/sub?

This is a great question, in fact, I will be posting a similar question here in the forum in the next day or so as I have been feeling very discouraged by the lack of responses to my ad/profile and I ...

Sun Nov 06, 2022 2:43 pm • 16 Replies • 2753 Views

Water sports yes or no?

This is a very interesting topic and I'm glad you posted.
When I first entered the world of BDSM, I was not interested in any way in watersports, as I saw it strictly as a way of degrading someone, w ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 9:39 pm • 54 Replies • 11251 Views

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

I also have very dark fantasies that I have discussed with my former partner. We would never act them out, only fantasize.
I sometimes find that as I go deeper with a sub especially, the fantasies te ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 9:26 pm • 34 Replies • 11110 Views

Strictly Online D/s Relationship 1:1 Pros and Cons

So, when my journey began many years ago into the world of BDSM, it started as strictly an online relationship, it then bloomed into r/l as I'm sure many people have had similar experiences.
Online: ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 9:15 pm • 60 Replies • 15368 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hi Friends!

I am new to the site, just joined a few days ago.
I am a slightly experienced daddy/dom, here looking for a sub but just as important, I am looking for friends in the community.
I hav ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 6:46 pm • 3162 Replies • 998275 Views

Doms willing to occasionally be submissive

Hi Everyone!
I entered this world as a sub and learned so much, I learned techniques, I learned the proper way to after-care, I learned the importance of building a world of trust in order to fully s ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 6:38 pm • 18 Replies • 3151 Views

The right pairing for mentorship?

My humble opinion is that anyone seeking knowledge and advice in this lifestyle is to be admired. So many newbies enter this world with the misunderstanding that within minutes of meeting a potential ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 6:29 pm • 8 Replies • 1308 Views