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Insight

Orange juice and a blanket doesn’t always cut it, and it feels dismissive of those that have a harder time with drop. I have been stuck in drop for days, doing all the self care things, Daddy doing al ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 8:19 pm • 15 Replies • 3750 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Insight

192

Insight

Best prescription I have for subdrop is a glass of OJ and a warm blanket for a bit.

As to slipping into it: It is like a big O, anything can set it off.

So congrats and glad you had such ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 4:19 pm • 15 Replies • 3750 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Insight

193

From Submissive to Switch?

I wish you great luck with it. Not all relationships can survive when one person evolves from one role to another.

My wife went from sub to switch to Domme. I told her she needed to get h ...

Wed Jan 22, 2025 2:33 pm • 6 Replies • 2374 Views

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TopekaDom

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From Submissive to Switch?

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

Mostly I think it is deceit. Those "Doms" who contact you seeking submission to you are just looking to get their rocks off. They have no real interest in being submissive, but think you are a kink ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 2:05 am • 18 Replies • 6733 Views

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TopekaDom

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Femdom

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

195

Let’s talk Roleplay

Like most ppl here, role-playing is all talk.

You are always such the cherry fellow! ??

Tue Jan 14, 2025 10:22 pm • 12 Replies • 3487 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Let’s talk Roleplay

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Let’s talk Roleplay

Costuming helps a great deal with role play, real time. It will give both sides of the collar a focus to get into the roles.

Tue Jan 14, 2025 8:27 pm • 12 Replies • 3487 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Let’s talk Roleplay

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Petty

The question is really what you mean by "Actual" kink. Are you talking scenes or a relationship?

Most of what you see on Fet is not real life kink. 90% of what you see on Kinky & Pop ...

Sun Jan 12, 2025 11:43 pm • 19 Replies • 5251 Views

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TopekaDom

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Petty

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Beginners Luck ?

If some "Domme" tells you to buy something for them, they are a lying cunt.

But that is just me. It is just the asshole in me.

and as long as it is consensual, who you have attraction for is up ...

Sat Jan 11, 2025 1:25 am • 8 Replies • 1946 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Beginners Luck ?

199

Is shibari a dying art ?

I want to start off saying that my of my rope skills have atrophied over time. It has been a great while since I have had the chance to work with anyone to keep up.

That being said: I think most ...

Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:41 pm • 14 Replies • 5631 Views

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TopekaDom

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Femdom

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Is shibari a dying art ?

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tributing..should mistress require for tribute and why

I think that if someone want to show themselves as a real scumbag, then sure "Tributes" are a great thing. Nothing says "Hey Look! I'm a pretend Domme and I don't know one end of a flogger from ...

Mon Jan 06, 2025 10:02 pm • 10 Replies • 3879 Views

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TopekaDom

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tributing..should mistress require for tribute and why