BDSM is....

Nicely said, Topeka

Thank you bunnie girl

Wed Sep 13, 2023 4:48 am • 7 Replies • 1060 Views

BDSM is....

In a recent blog post, They posted a meme talking about what BDSM is.

Of course it listed traits that should be what BDSM is about:
Trust
Communication
Honesty,
and Respect

Oh the things ...

Wed Sep 13, 2023 3:58 am • 7 Replies • 1060 Views

New Sub

Yeah we all make mistakes. I have fucked up a good deal of times, since starting all this. So you are not alone in that.

(I still fuck up now and then. Anyone who says they don't and know it ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 6:07 pm • 17 Replies • 2080 Views

New Sub

Collaring 2 weeks after talking with him?

I would say that is probably a little fast. Specially being new to the lifestyle.

Now me, I spent a year talking with the woman who became my sub b ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:26 pm • 17 Replies • 2080 Views

Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

“Soft” flogging can be a nice warm-down. Some soft, almost flowing taps (with a soft textured flogger) over areas that have been worked pretty hard, can add a nice touch of sensation play and bring a ...

Mon Sep 11, 2023 10:55 pm • 20 Replies • 2805 Views

Chastity devices

Closest I can come to something like that is when the wife and I had a couple over for play. After locking the guy in a cockcage, my wife took the female over to the couch to and was having her way ...

Mon Sep 11, 2023 1:39 pm • 16 Replies • 2415 Views

Re: Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

By heavier, do you mean more thuddy?

Yes. The Elk and other non cow seems to me be more thuddy to me.

Mon Sep 11, 2023 2:45 am • 20 Replies • 2805 Views

Wife Wants To Be A Slave - Help!

You all are biting off more than you can chew. Full time "sex only" slaves are something of porn and never really works out in real life. Frankly, it is a lazy way to try out the lifestyle. You ...

Sun Sep 10, 2023 1:31 pm • 4 Replies • 1031 Views

Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

This elk skin flogger is getting quite a bit of airtime on the site lately.

The one mentioned in the blog is not mine. But it raised some questions in my mind since I also own one.

Personally, ...

Sun Sep 10, 2023 12:28 am • 20 Replies • 2805 Views

Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

So I just saw a blog about someone getting messaged about a so called soft flogger. This has me somewhat puzzled.

Now the flogger mentioned is said to be Elk. I have an Elk leather (along with ...

Sun Sep 10, 2023 12:06 am • 20 Replies • 2805 Views