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Honorifics

If they have to ask or it or demand it, then they are not worthy of it. The D type needs to inspire the usage. If they don't inspire, then they are not doing things right.

Sun Jul 28, 2024 9:51 pm • 13 Replies • 3193 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Honorifics

302

Power Exchange According To You

How do you see it working in your own life Topeka?

It depends on what relationship you want to talk about.

I've done the micromanagement. It became a chore and won't do it again.

I've had ...

Sun Jul 28, 2024 1:20 am • 14 Replies • 3547 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Power Exchange According To You

303

Power Exchange According To You

Power exchange depends on the people involved.

Some people want an exchange where the Dom/me runs the whole show. Finances, clothing choice, food choice, sleeping arrangements, what have you ...

Sun Jul 28, 2024 12:17 am • 14 Replies • 3547 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Power Exchange According To You

304

Slaves finding Slaves for their Master

So here is a curious phenomenon: Masters who send their slaves out to look for other slaves.

Now this is something I have seen for years, decades really, and have never understood the whole idea. ...

Fri Jul 26, 2024 12:16 am • 24 Replies • 12407 Views

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TopekaDom

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Maledom

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Slaves finding Slaves for their Master

305

On the subject of jealousy

Now while there does seem to be some disconnect between the title of thread and the original post, I think you all are making a bit much out of it.

Thu Jul 25, 2024 4:28 pm • 5 Replies • 1767 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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On the subject of jealousy

306

Respect

If they have to ask for it, or demand it, then they aren't doing something right.

Thu Jul 25, 2024 2:21 am • 13 Replies • 3016 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Respect

307

Perversion Discussion

I don't.

Perversion is a control issue thrown at people when another group wants to focus on what they think is right. Even today, a certain group wants to say homosexuality is perversion. They ...

Wed Jul 24, 2024 11:39 pm • 4 Replies • 1301 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Perversion Discussion

308

On the subject of jealousy

It is a hard thing for a Dom/me to admit we have been lied to.

In our chosen roles, we have to ooze confidence and shine in leadership. But in the end, we are only human. We make mistakes. ...

Wed Jul 24, 2024 11:29 pm • 5 Replies • 1767 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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On the subject of jealousy

309

How to survive edging?

Think of baseball

Wed Jul 24, 2024 4:37 pm • 8 Replies • 2630 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How to survive edging?

310

Changing Kink Desires

On the gain side: Breath play is something I never thought I would become interested. But after watching various forms, doing research and attending classes, it is something that can be very fun w ...

Tue Jul 23, 2024 2:54 am • 8 Replies • 1850 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Changing Kink Desires