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Is it consent or is it something more?

Reading a recent blog here dealing with the ABCs of the lifestyle, they talked about C being for Consent.

While this is a very important subject, it made me think, is this really enough?

During ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 4:18 pm • 13 Replies • 3034 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Is it consent or is it something more?

352

Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

Experience in what? A particular activity? The lifestyle in general?

In the years past, I seemed to specialized in subs who were new to the lifestyle. I mean to the point where others won ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 1:25 pm • 26 Replies • 6387 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

353

Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Hell No. What it is people are never fucking satisfied.

I fucking QUIT, THESE people that ain't never mofo going to be happy.

FJC. ALMIGHTY.

Maybe two rooms ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 3:56 am • 113 Replies • 33654 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Turn offs in new conversations

354

Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Tue Jun 18, 2024 2:29 am • 113 Replies • 33654 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Turn offs in new conversations

355

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

In my even less humble opinion, the word is not soft at all and is exactly descriptive of what can happen to people that are experiencing BDSM in the beginning. Perhaps you have missed the actual defi ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:48 pm • 10 Replies • 3421 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

356

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

Basically kid in a candy store effect. WANT TO DO ALL THE THINGS NOWWWWW. Kind of the opposite of sub/Dom drop. But like Topeka said, it's a dangerous space if not taken seriously.

That's how you e ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:43 pm • 10 Replies • 3421 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

357

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

I'm not quite sure what it is you are missing, as it seems rather obvious to me.

It seems to be when someone new gets into the lifestyle and over indulgences, particularly in physical activities. ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:15 pm • 10 Replies • 3421 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

358

Authenticity

Define "authentic".

Mon Jun 17, 2024 12:48 am • 26 Replies • 6351 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Authenticity

359

Subs with mental illness

Over the years I have been active within the lifestyle, I have met a number of people who have had issues of many kinds. Myself, I have suffered from insecurity and inferiority in the past. Othe ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 11:30 pm • 31 Replies • 6504 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Subs with mental illness

360

Dominant headspace is scary; how do I change that?

"With Great Power, comes Great Responsibility"

(and I FUCKING hate stan lee)

When it comes to being a Dom/me, it is a case of shitting or getting off the pot. Either you do it or not ( to abu ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 6:20 pm • 6 Replies • 1979 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Dominant headspace is scary; how do I change that?