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Self Release Experiment

Kind of, Houdini sort of thing? And I have missed something with the melting ice?

There are a few devices and various self bondage with rope that will utilize melting ice as a release trigger. The ...

Wed Jul 03, 2024 4:11 am • 5 Replies • 3705 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Self Release Experiment

352

Self Release Experiment

So, in talking with someone here on The Cage about their interest in self bondage, I went into a deep dive on equipment for that. And, being the tinkerer I am, I started working on a design of a sel ...

Mon Jul 01, 2024 2:20 pm • 5 Replies • 3705 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Self Release Experiment

353

Not willing to compromise on

Well now that we have had a few answers, I'll add my own:

Being barefoot. While it not only fuels my main fetish, it supplies a great symbolism for submissiveness

Sun Jun 30, 2024 4:22 am • 14 Replies • 4630 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Not willing to compromise on

354

Solo Pain Experiment?

You are not alone in wanting to experience self inflected pain. The main thing is to not get carried away and do too much at one time.

you also need to be ready to get out of ever you try rather ...

Thu Jun 27, 2024 10:10 pm • 9 Replies • 2398 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Solo Pain Experiment?

355

Not willing to compromise on

So being part of the lifestyle here, we all have our limits (or should. If you are one of those who say "no limits, that is a different discussion elsewhere).

But what I to know is what is somet ...

Wed Jun 26, 2024 11:12 pm • 14 Replies • 4630 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Not willing to compromise on

356

Anybody else....

Or you "love" their profile, because it is well written and thought out only to come back and see they blocked you.

That is vastly amusing

Tue Jun 25, 2024 12:38 am • 8 Replies • 1624 Views

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TopekaDom

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Just for Fun

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Anybody else....

357

What do you think of subs owning other subs?

Ok, yes technically this makes the owner a Switch, but go with the flow on this one:

Relationships can take many a form within the lifestyle. But in working on my next set of stories for Silvia, ...

Fri Jun 21, 2024 10:31 pm • 14 Replies • 4452 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What do you think of subs owning other subs?

358

Should I do it?

You can set the bond to refuse any unsolicited messages. It is very handy, as it also allows you to send voice clips. I do it when I am on my cell, as my fat ass fingers are too big for cell keyboa ...

Thu Jun 20, 2024 7:49 pm • 5 Replies • 1987 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Should I do it?

359

Is it consent or is it something more?

Reading a recent blog here dealing with the ABCs of the lifestyle, they talked about C being for Consent.

While this is a very important subject, it made me think, is this really enough?

During ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 4:18 pm • 13 Replies • 3380 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Is it consent or is it something more?

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

Experience in what? A particular activity? The lifestyle in general?

In the years past, I seemed to specialized in subs who were new to the lifestyle. I mean to the point where others won ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 1:25 pm • 26 Replies • 7159 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?