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Subs with mental illness

Over the years I have been active within the lifestyle, I have met a number of people who have had issues of many kinds. Myself, I have suffered from insecurity and inferiority in the past. Othe ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 11:30 pm • 31 Replies • 5746 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Subs with mental illness

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Dominant headspace is scary; how do I change that?

"With Great Power, comes Great Responsibility"

(and I FUCKING hate stan lee)

When it comes to being a Dom/me, it is a case of shitting or getting off the pot. Either you do it or not ( to abu ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 6:20 pm • 6 Replies • 1760 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Dominant headspace is scary; how do I change that?

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D types as mentors

I have mentored unattached s types (both male and female)

I have mentored D/s couples (both being s types and opposite sides of the collar)

I have mentored s types who are collared and or bein ...

Tue Apr 02, 2024 7:59 pm • 23 Replies • 4726 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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D types as mentors

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is there an "Outside world" and a "Kinky world" OR ...

Of course there are other worlds:

There are going to be those that do not want to know what we do or how we behave. People who think what we do is evil. People who will ridicule or haunt us ...

Sun Mar 31, 2024 8:39 pm • 10 Replies • 3161 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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is there an "Outside world" and a "Kinky world" OR ...

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D types as mentors

Now I say all this after being a Mentor for various s types and a few Ds over the decades:

Yes it is possible but one needs to watch out for those that will offer to mentor you. A good deal of ti ...

Sat Mar 30, 2024 3:13 pm • 23 Replies • 4726 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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D types as mentors

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Hypnosis

What I really want to know is do I have to buy a special kind of watch to swing back and forth, or can any old watch do?

You could always try it with your dick?

?

That won't work.

No one ...

Thu Mar 28, 2024 5:06 pm • 62 Replies • 21160 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Hypnosis

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Kink education

Some things are not meant to evolve. Rigging and things like knife play have a very basic skills that if you were to change them will only invite disaster.

However, there are always new things ...

Wed Mar 27, 2024 4:01 pm • 14 Replies • 3502 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Kink education

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Hypnosis

What I really want to know is do I have to buy a special kind of watch to swing back and forth, or can any old watch do?

Wed Mar 27, 2024 1:41 pm • 62 Replies • 21160 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Hypnosis

359

Tickle Torture

I would think that's for people that are super super ticklish, never thought of someone passing out from being tickled! I don't think I'm quite that ticklish, lol.

Well the person in question was t ...

Tue Mar 26, 2024 4:00 am • 15 Replies • 2669 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Tickle Torture

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Tickle Torture

Never done it myself, but seen more than a few over the years.

Most safeworded out but a few pissed themselves and one pissed themself and then passed out.

Mon Mar 25, 2024 1:53 pm • 15 Replies • 2669 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Tickle Torture