Favorite protocols

Protocols can fall into any type of relationship, not just M/s ones. They are wonderful tools that allows the s type to focus on mental aspect of the lifestyle. Mostly the problem is people don' ...

Mon Jul 03, 2023 6:24 pm • 8 Replies • 1665 Views

Ask a Dom/me or s type anything

So here it is the holiday weekend and I am watching the Tremors set for like the 5th time. Being that bored, I thought I would see if this site would be up to a bit of a Q & A.

I want to se ...

Sun Jul 02, 2023 11:03 pm • 6 Replies • 640 Views

Tasks vs Rules

Maybe I should ask this instead:
Is it fair to say that rules are things outlined that always remain in place, day to day, unless otherwise stated: whereas tasks are things that may vary day-to-day? ...

Sun Jul 02, 2023 6:30 pm • 16 Replies • 2896 Views

Tasks vs Rules

The thing is, a given rule or task may apply to s type a but not to s type b.
The only thing that carries over to each relationship is being barefooted (due to my incredible foot fetish), eve ...

Sun Jul 02, 2023 3:59 pm • 16 Replies • 2896 Views

Tasks vs Rules

Each is what I say it is when I set up a given relationship.

What is a task for one, may be a rule for another.

Or may be forbidden in a third.

Sun Jul 02, 2023 1:09 am • 16 Replies • 2896 Views

Service Subs

My favorite punishment is:

"I am disappointed in you"

Thu Jun 29, 2023 3:59 am • 3 Replies • 955 Views

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

Really what D/s is to me is: Philosophy, Responsibility, and other crimes.

In its purest form , you can take out all the physical aspects and D/s works still. You really can't do so in the other d ...

Wed Jun 28, 2023 6:28 pm • 87 Replies • 14407 Views

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

So I am going to ask, what for you, ‘is real D/s?’

Like I mentioned before: It is the mental and emotional aspects.

Kinksters don't want structure, they want to engage in the physical aspect ...

Wed Jun 28, 2023 5:17 pm • 87 Replies • 14407 Views

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

So in away I agree with TopekaDom, except in his views re what current folks are up to, which I think is a tad dismissive of what is perfectly valid fun having.

I'm not dismissive of it at all. ...

Wed Jun 28, 2023 5:08 pm • 87 Replies • 14407 Views

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

So in away I agree with TopekaDom, except in his views re what current folks are up to, which I think is a tad dismissive of what is perfectly valid fun having.

I'm not dismissive of it at all. ...

Wed Jun 28, 2023 4:13 am • 87 Replies • 14407 Views