How best to reply (sub female)

How you reply is up to you. Some use Honorifics, others don't.

But....

Just because someone tacks on "LordHighMuckyMuck" on as a screen tag does not mean you have to automatically require y ...

Wed Feb 22, 2023 3:23 pm • 33 Replies • 7988 Views

Potential site improvements?

A self destruct button. Every good lair has a self destruct button. We don't actually have to wire it to anything, but it should have like a clear lid we flip up and a key to turn before we push ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 5:44 am • 29 Replies • 4505 Views

Crossing a line?

Being accused of satanism is a big pile of crap. christian nationalist label anything they don't like as "satainist". Its a simple control issue. I have been putting up with it for decades now. ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 5:38 am • 9 Replies • 1720 Views

CNC fun ~

Well back in the 2000s, I used to be part of real time group that grew out of am Alt.com chat room. We used to meet once a year in St. Louis. About 200 people or so.

Anyway, I took this piece ...

Thu Feb 16, 2023 3:15 pm • 9 Replies • 2776 Views

What do you enjoy more?

It is the absolute level of trust that the s type gives to me when I want to do some outrageous things to them.

Well that and tears.

Tears give me a massive hard on.

Wed Feb 15, 2023 7:33 pm • 22 Replies • 3973 Views

Screenshots publishing

The problem is people will write shit to someone because they know they can get away with it and the worst thing will happen is a wrist slap.

I never got this idea that once you hit send, that mess ...

Tue Feb 14, 2023 10:11 pm • 37 Replies • 4570 Views

being rude

Heh.

While I have not read the rest of the replies (is that rude of me?), I thought I would drop my 2 cents of opinion:

More often than not, in an online D/s setting, you will hear (or see as t ...

Mon Feb 13, 2023 10:20 pm • 35 Replies • 7443 Views

Foot fetish

The funniest part I find with a Dom with a foot fetish is how widely accepted it is today than it was when I started in the lifestyle. Back then, I was repeatedly told I could not be a Dom if I love ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 5:14 pm • 57 Replies • 14700 Views

first time

Are bdsm dynamics not normal?

Please elaborate for us who aren't the brightest bulb in the tanning bed.

The thing is, much like a vanilla relationship, each BDSM relationship is different from e ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 5:10 pm • 8 Replies • 1265 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

I am frequently disappointed with men (Doms) on several sites.
I don’t like to be called “cum slut, etc in a first brief encounter.
I don’t identify with addressing one as Master during first messa ...

Tue Feb 07, 2023 3:56 pm • 113 Replies • 17482 Views