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In Need of Explanation or Education

We also shouldn't let drivil go by unanswered.

Just because they say it with conviction does not make is so.

Part of the problem we have in society today is letting crap stand as truth beca ...

Sun Feb 11, 2024 9:57 pm • 36 Replies • 7300 Views

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TopekaDom

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In Need of Explanation or Education

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Initialism

I think older generations will find it hard to be "old fashioned" when people are coming out and trying to figure out who they are and what they want.

Not all of us old farts find such things dista ...

Thu Feb 08, 2024 8:31 pm • 24 Replies • 5073 Views

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TopekaDom

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Initialism

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Initialism

(For example, BBC, SPH, CISgender, POC, CIM, OTK, to name some of them.)

I love me some BBC

Doctor Who is my favorite!

Thu Feb 08, 2024 3:47 am • 24 Replies • 5073 Views

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Initialism

Oh that is soooo cute!

In 30 years I haven't see a general consensus on what "Slave", "Submissive" or "Dominant" means.

Any time you get 5 or more people in the lifestyle (and don't even as ...

Thu Feb 08, 2024 3:29 am • 24 Replies • 5073 Views

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TopekaDom

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Initialism

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In Need of Explanation or Education

You mean someone made sense of this post?

I gave up on it in the middle of the second paragraph. It sounded way too much like someone who had no idea what he was talking about , but continued to ...

Wed Feb 07, 2024 1:06 am • 36 Replies • 7300 Views

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TopekaDom

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In Need of Explanation or Education

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D/S dynamic....Reality or myth?

The main thing about a D/s relationship is this:

Every relationship is different.

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Sat Feb 03, 2024 12:16 am • 23 Replies • 4814 Views

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TopekaDom

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D/S dynamic....Reality or myth?

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Addressing Other Master/Dommes

@ TopekaDom
You mean someone with whom you are ina dynamic with? Or strangers? ?‍?

Yes.

Fri Feb 02, 2024 3:18 am • 27 Replies • 6231 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Addressing Other Master/Dommes

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Addressing Other Master/Dommes

And since this thread has picked up some steam, I thought I I would add this tid bit:

I don't require anyone to call me Sir.

However,

If they don't, then I am not doing something right. I h ...

Fri Feb 02, 2024 1:18 am • 27 Replies • 6231 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Addressing Other Master/Dommes

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Continue watching BDSM porn?

Really it all depends on what you are watching it for.

90% of BDSM porn is pure crap. Flogging where neither participate know what they are doing. Spankings and paddlings are the same. Too m ...

Fri Jan 26, 2024 4:40 pm • 9 Replies • 2205 Views

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TopekaDom

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Continue watching BDSM porn?

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Do Dom/mes get to have Praise fetish?

While I didn't a lot of time to engage in D/s activities during my silly time (post thanksgiving through the second week or so of January), I did get sometime to contemplate various aspects.

On ...

Sat Jan 20, 2024 12:31 am • 28 Replies • 12023 Views

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TopekaDom

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Maledom

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Do Dom/mes get to have Praise fetish?