First meeting

I assume you are talking about a first time real meet. Face to face kind of thing.

Always do that in a public place. Coffeeshops are a great place to do it. You will learn all kinds of things ...

Sun Oct 15, 2023 1:31 am • 10 Replies • 2788 Views

Leather cuffs - Furr or no Furr?

So in putting together my unnamed whatzit (I'm thinking of calling it my Pillory Lead, but not sold on that name yet), I am going to need a new set of cuffs. This is so I don't have to keep moving th ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 2:01 am • 10 Replies • 3373 Views

To Chase or not to Chase

So a question to those inside the collar and outside:

What is your philosophy on advancing relationships within the lifestyle? That is to say, do you pursue those you find interesting or do you w ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 12:06 am • 12 Replies • 3516 Views

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

I don't know if it is a Dom thing that we don't talk about it, or an Ego thing.

Is it we have a duty to be right all the time? Do we not want to show that we make mistakes and have to pay fo ...

Fri Oct 13, 2023 4:22 am • 11 Replies • 3244 Views

Slap Happy ?

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Fri Oct 13, 2023 12:37 am • 52 Replies • 8723 Views

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

Yes.

Yes we do. During my time within the lifestyle, I have encountered a double handful of those who I originally thought were going to be wonderful, then turn into horror shows under the full m ...

Thu Oct 12, 2023 12:47 pm • 11 Replies • 3244 Views

Lifestyle BDSM

To be honest, there are very few people who do it 24/7.

Even when I was full throttle, years ago, there were times when I would lapse into vanillahood. Doing 24/7 is very hard and takes a grea ...

Wed Oct 11, 2023 1:07 pm • 18 Replies • 3780 Views

Aftercare - Newbie

Warm blankets and orange juice. Specially right after a scene.

Mon Oct 09, 2023 11:08 pm • 9 Replies • 1719 Views

Profile Layout ~ Problems

It appears the text is in bold typeface?

Sun Oct 08, 2023 12:34 am • 10 Replies • 7236 Views

Profile Layout ~ Problems

With Cage being based on Israel, there may be problems with the site for a bit.

Sun Oct 08, 2023 12:06 am • 10 Replies • 7236 Views