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Taking the lead or taking the lead

For me, taking the lead is being responsible. Not only for my own conduct, but for providing the education of the s type's conduct as well. Being the lead is creating an example on how things ar ...

Tue Oct 31, 2023 5:38 pm • 5 Replies • 1310 Views

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TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Taking the lead or taking the lead

442

Sub collar

Personally, I would wait til you have a Dom. Us Doms like to choose the collar for the sub. I have chosen different kinds of collars for different reasons.

Mon Oct 30, 2023 12:27 am • 7 Replies • 2301 Views

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TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Sub collar

443

Do Dom/mes Settle?

Trigger Warning

I am not advocating for breaking Hard/soft Limits. Before anyone starts pissing and moaning, please read the entire discussion, then form your reply

Topic in ...

Fri Oct 27, 2023 10:05 pm • 13 Replies • 3370 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Do Dom/mes Settle?

444

What Really Turns You On

Women walking around barefooted

Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:23 pm • 94 Replies • 21814 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

What Really Turns You On

445

What really pisses you off?

You want to know what really burns my ass?

Really burns, I mean!!!

A flame about 3 feet high

Wed Oct 25, 2023 11:52 pm • 66 Replies • 14814 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

What really pisses you off?

446

Are your fantasies holding you back?

No not really.

To be really honest, I've done things or been part of things a great deal of this site does consider fantasy. Somethings I've done once and won't do again, others I wish I could d ...

Tue Oct 24, 2023 1:04 am • 14 Replies • 4845 Views

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TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Are your fantasies holding you back?

447

Light Kink to the Extremes

There are indeed.

Being kinky is not a matter of competitiveness, seeing who can out kinky everyone else. It is a matter of what one likes and dislikes. That is why limits exist.

Mon Oct 23, 2023 4:06 pm • 2 Replies • 1024 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Light Kink to the Extremes

448

Punishment

Punishment, within the lifestyle, is something that has been perverted.

In my not so humble opinion.

In reality, it is something done to correct a behavior that is wrong in a given relationsh ...

Mon Oct 23, 2023 3:14 pm • 60 Replies • 15841 Views

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TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Punishment

449

'Can we talk? Can we be friends?'

So, a whole bunch of us feel similarly. ?

What a shame that the people who send these messages, are highly unlikely to read the forums and blogs...

Send them a link to this thread when they writ ...

Thu Oct 19, 2023 1:39 pm • 17 Replies • 4075 Views

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TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

'Can we talk? Can we be friends?'

450

Checklist - Bootblacking

Now here is something you don't hear much about anymore. At least I don't.

It is the simple art of cleaning a Dom/me's boots while wearing them. Now it could be that Dom/mes simply don't wear ...

Wed Oct 18, 2023 11:09 pm • 5 Replies • 2015 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Checklist - Bootblacking