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What is it that you (subs) desire?

Asking a question like this is like asking someone what kind of ice cream they like.

Largely, what you learn from a group of people is not going to specifically applicable to a given sub.

What ...

Thu Nov 02, 2023 5:22 pm • 40 Replies • 16042 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

What is it that you (subs) desire?

452

Is it needed to tell me that you're a nice guy?

That is why I always tell people I am an asshole. I can only go up from there.

Thu Nov 02, 2023 2:58 pm • 40 Replies • 10749 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Is it needed to tell me that you're a nice guy?

453

Estim tens

Not really anything. Electrical play has been around for decades.

Thu Nov 02, 2023 2:00 pm • 8 Replies • 5046 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Estim tens

454

Dominants of every flavor

It isn't about the control, it is about the surender.

So I turn the question back on you: What is it you are willing to surrender first?

Wed Nov 01, 2023 1:49 pm • 12 Replies • 4493 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Dominants of every flavor

455

True heart

The mainly problem is the word: True.

What is true for one is not so much for another.

Now do we have a calling for the lifestyle, We can. Those who believe in the mental and emotional si ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 3:53 am • 5 Replies • 1858 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

True heart

456

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

I know this is going to piss some people off, but:

Nose piercings.

I know, I'm an old fuck and your body, your choice.....

But really? Everytime I see a stud, it makes me think of an oil ...

Tue Oct 31, 2023 10:53 pm • 60 Replies • 14866 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

457

Taking the lead or taking the lead

For me, taking the lead is being responsible. Not only for my own conduct, but for providing the education of the s type's conduct as well. Being the lead is creating an example on how things ar ...

Tue Oct 31, 2023 5:38 pm • 5 Replies • 1578 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Taking the lead or taking the lead

458

Sub collar

Personally, I would wait til you have a Dom. Us Doms like to choose the collar for the sub. I have chosen different kinds of collars for different reasons.

Mon Oct 30, 2023 12:27 am • 7 Replies • 2746 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Sub collar

459

Do Dom/mes Settle?

Trigger Warning

I am not advocating for breaking Hard/soft Limits. Before anyone starts pissing and moaning, please read the entire discussion, then form your reply

Topic in ...

Fri Oct 27, 2023 10:05 pm • 13 Replies • 4198 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Do Dom/mes Settle?

460

What Really Turns You On

Women walking around barefooted

Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:23 pm • 94 Replies • 26311 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What Really Turns You On