OTK

- spank me with the paddle
- spank me with the belt
- spank me with the crop
- spank me with the flogger
- spank me with a wooden spoon (ok, that wasn’t my Dom - but my mom would spank me with kit ...

Sat Oct 07, 2023 2:19 am • 20 Replies • 3800 Views

OTK

I refer to other spankings as impact play. But barehanded, a spanking. Experienced OTK recently for the first time and YEP. Definitely different ?

Get your hair pulled?

Fri Oct 06, 2023 7:30 pm • 20 Replies • 3800 Views

OTK

Over
The
Knee(s)

This used to be a very common term. But since I have been on Cage, I have gotten more than a few sideways puppy head looks from users when I utter it (well type it anyway). ...

Fri Oct 06, 2023 6:56 pm • 20 Replies • 3800 Views

Any Doms who do it for fun?

I've done it for fun.

It's called Topping.

So, do you really believe there is a difference between Dom/Sub play for fun and...Dom/Sub "kink" for some other reason? If so, what kind of reasons? ...

Wed Oct 04, 2023 9:03 pm • 22 Replies • 5739 Views

Any Doms who do it for fun?

I've done it for fun.

It's called Topping.

Wed Oct 04, 2023 12:48 pm • 22 Replies • 5739 Views

Objectification : Yay or Nay?

I suppose it depends upon your personal definition of BDSM and type of dynamic you want. I personally could never wrap my head around the idea of a girl being treated as an inanimate object. She is a ...

Sat Sep 30, 2023 4:09 am • 10 Replies • 3070 Views

Objectification : Yay or Nay?

And another thread within this forum, (playing without commitment), somebody mentioned that we, as humans are mentally and emotionally built for commitment that playing without commitment is psycholog ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 11:18 pm • 10 Replies • 3070 Views

Playing with no Committment

I know people inside as well as outside of the collar who do it rather easily. The idea is lies in the fact there are three sides to the lifestyle: Emotional, Mental, and Physical.

Playing falls i ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 1:25 pm • 34 Replies • 8516 Views

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

I'm honestly curious how punching or kicking is even executed safely from a body mechanics viewpoint. Like how does one control an impact like that to cause pain, but without damage?

The sub I knew ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 4:45 am • 5 Replies • 1474 Views

Dominant Styles

My style is something that has worked for very few, as it is the very few who understands it.

I don't hunt. I don't pursue.

Instead, I talk and educate. I draw verbal pictures how things sh ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 1:14 pm • 19 Replies • 5556 Views