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Posts by TopekaDom(dom male){✶}

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OTK

Over
The
Knee(s)

This used to be a very common term. But since I have been on Cage, I have gotten more than a few sideways puppy head looks from users when I utter it (well type it anyway). ...

Fri Oct 06, 2023 6:56 pm • 20 Replies • 5065 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

OTK

492

Any Doms who do it for fun?

I've done it for fun.

It's called Topping.

So, do you really believe there is a difference between Dom/Sub play for fun and...Dom/Sub "kink" for some other reason? If so, what kind of reasons? ...

Wed Oct 04, 2023 9:03 pm • 22 Replies • 7275 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Any Doms who do it for fun?

493

Any Doms who do it for fun?

I've done it for fun.

It's called Topping.

Wed Oct 04, 2023 12:48 pm • 22 Replies • 7275 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Any Doms who do it for fun?

494

Objectification : Yay or Nay?

I suppose it depends upon your personal definition of BDSM and type of dynamic you want. I personally could never wrap my head around the idea of a girl being treated as an inanimate object. She is a ...

Sat Sep 30, 2023 4:09 am • 10 Replies • 4097 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Objectification : Yay or Nay?

495

Objectification : Yay or Nay?

And another thread within this forum, (playing without commitment), somebody mentioned that we, as humans are mentally and emotionally built for commitment that playing without commitment is psycholog ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 11:18 pm • 10 Replies • 4097 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Objectification : Yay or Nay?

496

Playing with no Committment

I know people inside as well as outside of the collar who do it rather easily. The idea is lies in the fact there are three sides to the lifestyle: Emotional, Mental, and Physical.

Playing falls i ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 1:25 pm • 34 Replies • 10438 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Playing with no Committment

497

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

I'm honestly curious how punching or kicking is even executed safely from a body mechanics viewpoint. Like how does one control an impact like that to cause pain, but without damage?

The sub I knew ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 4:45 am • 5 Replies • 2105 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Fetish

Topic

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

498

Dominant Styles

My style is something that has worked for very few, as it is the very few who understands it.

I don't hunt. I don't pursue.

Instead, I talk and educate. I draw verbal pictures how things sh ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 1:14 pm • 19 Replies • 6683 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Dominant Styles

499

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

If I have to use a closed fist, then, yeah no.

Yes I have known s types who love black eyes and gut punches, but I tain't doing that.

I'll bite, scratch, slap, hard pinch, tit squeeze, hair ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:47 am • 5 Replies • 2105 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Fetish

Topic

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

500

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

I can't believe I haven't chimed in on this one (at least up to page 5, then I quit looking)

In my day things ran:

Master/Mistress: Owner of property
Dom/me: had/could have subs
Tops: play p ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:19 am • 87 Replies • 25606 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇