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Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

So here is a question you the under the collars. Remember: There is no right or wrong answer, I just want to see what those who wish to respond say.

Situation: Have a play date set up with your ...

Sat Sep 16, 2023 3:14 am • 40 Replies • 12288 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

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Communication

I just want to make sure I am getting this right:

Your Current Kink Interest is saying that outside stresses will impact your D/s relationship?

If that is correct, then your CKI is quite correct ...

Fri Sep 15, 2023 9:51 pm • 6 Replies • 2224 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Communication

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Your best reply for spam calls.

My grandfather taught me my favorite approach to this, typically they call and ask "How are you today?" Or something like it so we say in our deepest most affected MN accent "Oh, you know I could be d ...

Fri Sep 15, 2023 3:56 am • 16 Replies • 4381 Views

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TopekaDom

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Just for Fun

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Your best reply for spam calls.

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Your best reply for spam calls.

Well one time I got the "Can you hear me" spam call.

For those who don't know, when you get a call and after you say "Hello", they will say "Can you hear me?" They are trying to get you to say " ...

Fri Sep 15, 2023 1:20 am • 16 Replies • 4381 Views

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TopekaDom

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Just for Fun

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Your best reply for spam calls.

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Do you consider Hypnosis edgeplay? Why or why not?

Personally, I never got the idea of hypnosis, as far as lifestyle play. Now mind you, I've never done it or even seen it done in real life. All my experience comes from Hollywood, and I know it doe ...

Thu Sep 14, 2023 12:45 pm • 8 Replies • 2641 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Do you consider Hypnosis edgeplay? Why or why not?

516

BDSM is....

Nicely said, Topeka

Thank you bunnie girl

Wed Sep 13, 2023 4:48 am • 7 Replies • 2771 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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BDSM is....

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BDSM is....

In a recent blog post, They posted a meme talking about what BDSM is.

Of course it listed traits that should be what BDSM is about:
Trust
Communication
Honesty,
and Respect

Oh the things ...

Wed Sep 13, 2023 3:58 am • 7 Replies • 2771 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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BDSM is....

518

New Sub

Yeah we all make mistakes. I have fucked up a good deal of times, since starting all this. So you are not alone in that.

(I still fuck up now and then. Anyone who says they don't and know it ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 6:07 pm • 17 Replies • 5097 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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New Sub

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New Sub

Collaring 2 weeks after talking with him?

I would say that is probably a little fast. Specially being new to the lifestyle.

Now me, I spent a year talking with the woman who became my sub b ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:26 pm • 17 Replies • 5097 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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New Sub

520

Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

“Soft” flogging can be a nice warm-down. Some soft, almost flowing taps (with a soft textured flogger) over areas that have been worked pretty hard, can add a nice touch of sensation play and bring a ...

Mon Sep 11, 2023 10:55 pm • 20 Replies • 7235 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers