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541

Nipple clamps

Start with clothes pins and work your way up. Nothing cheaper than that.

Thu Aug 03, 2023 11:58 pm • 13 Replies • 4275 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Nipple clamps

542

What does 'protected' mean and does it work?

It means they use proper sex protections?

(Hey, I thought it was funny at 5 am)

It would be funny, except that the OP is neurodivergent and sometimes (I don't know if it is the case with her), s ...

Thu Jul 20, 2023 2:24 pm • 17 Replies • 5373 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

What does 'protected' mean and does it work?

543

What does 'protected' mean and does it work?

It means they use proper sex protections?

(Hey, I thought it was funny at 5 am)

Thu Jul 20, 2023 1:42 pm • 17 Replies • 5373 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

What does 'protected' mean and does it work?

544

Punishment/ reward

But to answer the OP, rewards and punishments are control factors and all control factors are manipulative. As are all things in the universe, manipulation is neither good or bad, but how they are u ...

Wed Jul 12, 2023 4:13 am • 9 Replies • 2037 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Punishment/ reward

545

Punishment/ reward

Perhaps that is why there also known as "Funishments"

Gawd I hate that term.

Wed Jul 12, 2023 4:10 am • 9 Replies • 2037 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Punishment/ reward

546

Where to find toys?

If you are looking for leather goods, I would suggest https://www.hololeathers.com/ . All my floggers were handmade by a fellow Dom years ago and just had Holo rehandle two of them. They do very ...

Tue Jul 11, 2023 2:31 am • 16 Replies • 4670 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Where to find toys?

547

Big penis humiliation..?

Guess the only thing I got to contribute was the time I threatened to get out my hose clamps cuz he was too big for my gates of hell

Wed Jul 05, 2023 1:50 am • 14 Replies • 6558 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Big penis humiliation..?

548

Non sexual sadistic domination

Serving as furniture seemed to turn into punishments, did you mean funishments?

Not all human furniture is "punishment".

I find objectification can be a very interesting form of servitude. ...

Mon Jul 03, 2023 11:12 pm • 8 Replies • 2883 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Non sexual sadistic domination

549

Non sexual sadistic domination

I often relate a relationship I had with an s type back in the late 90s. This was a woman who was engaged to a guy who put her on a pedestal. This woman could not do anything wrong is this guy's e ...

Mon Jul 03, 2023 9:24 pm • 8 Replies • 2883 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Non sexual sadistic domination

550

Favorite protocols

Protocols can fall into any type of relationship, not just M/s ones. They are wonderful tools that allows the s type to focus on mental aspect of the lifestyle. Mostly the problem is people don' ...

Mon Jul 03, 2023 6:24 pm • 8 Replies • 3090 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Favorite protocols