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Rope play

Best advice I can give is no slip knots and always have safety scissors handy.

plus maybe not to start with noose play.

Sat Aug 19, 2023 1:42 pm • 6 Replies • 1743 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Rope play

542

Switch? What is that!

Well that is something I"ve been dealing with for about 30 years or so now.

Course it is a big pile of crap. That is like saying LGBQ people are simply engaging in a "choice".

One is not n ...

Fri Aug 18, 2023 8:38 pm • 18 Replies • 4038 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Switch? What is that!

543

Re: ...

Bob?

Surely it would be Bob Walker?

That make the other side of that "bobit walker"?

Thu Aug 17, 2023 3:18 am • 9 Replies • 2257 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

D/s Collar Terms

544

D/s Collar Terms

Bob?

Wed Aug 16, 2023 2:29 am • 9 Replies • 2257 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

D/s Collar Terms

545

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

No it isn't right and, yes, it has been going on for years now. If not decades.

Largely it comes from self important pricks who think because they are dimlyDoms they can do as they think regar ...

Sat Aug 12, 2023 12:32 am • 25 Replies • 7538 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

546

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

I got that list, Kyiv. I'm seeking personal recommendations.

Sat Aug 05, 2023 6:39 pm • 3 Replies • 1471 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

547

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

I have a very good friend who is becoming interested in the lifestyle, on the submale side. However while I can provide him with the ins and outs of the lifestyle, he lives around Phoenix AZ and I d ...

Sat Aug 05, 2023 5:48 pm • 3 Replies • 1471 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

548

Wife wants a scene

Well that seems like a terrible idea for a first scene. Someone could fill a book with all the ideas on how that could go wrong.

Fri Aug 04, 2023 2:39 pm • 18 Replies • 5574 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Wife wants a scene

549

Nipple clamps

Start with clothes pins and work your way up. Nothing cheaper than that.

Thu Aug 03, 2023 11:58 pm • 13 Replies • 4633 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Nipple clamps

550

What does 'protected' mean and does it work?

It means they use proper sex protections?

(Hey, I thought it was funny at 5 am)

It would be funny, except that the OP is neurodivergent and sometimes (I don't know if it is the case with her), s ...

Thu Jul 20, 2023 2:24 pm • 17 Replies • 6115 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

What does 'protected' mean and does it work?