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Could You, Do You, Have You?

That is something that is both easy and complicated.

The easy part is setting up the relationships

The complicated part is setting up the rules and boundaries.

Those lacking proper commun ...

Tue Sep 09, 2025 4:19 pm • 9 Replies • 5652 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Could You, Do You, Have You?

Is it a gift?

This is an old school idea.

Back in the day, particularly on the then new internet (that is the World Wide Web), submissives needed a catch phrase to keep "Doms" from walking all over them, demandi ...

Mon Sep 01, 2025 5:44 pm • 8 Replies • 5640 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is it a gift?

What’s the makeup here?

I'm just a guy named Bob

But Bob isn't my real name.

Mon Aug 25, 2025 7:39 pm • 17 Replies • 9519 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What’s the makeup here?

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

I'm just wondering if you're serious or just stirring up drama.

And here I sit, unsurprised, you can not tell the difference.

Mon Aug 25, 2025 2:42 am • 41 Replies • 16213 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

This may sound simple, maybe even sarcastic (heaven forbid), but, how do you deal with fake/insta doms?
Don't be an insta sub.

And there it is

Victim blaming.

Imagine that.

Sun Aug 24, 2025 3:32 pm • 41 Replies • 16213 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

if you were really concerned, why not post your thoughts instead of coming across as sarcastic?

Good lord.

Has it been that long since I have posted?

Thu Aug 21, 2025 4:22 am • 41 Replies • 16213 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

It is utterly hilarious the amount of Doms replying on this thread!

Thu Aug 21, 2025 4:10 am • 41 Replies • 16213 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

owning a m-f couple

Really it is up the people involved.

Owning a couple (be it MF, FF, MM, or what have you) is literally twice as much effort as owning a single property. Yes you can designate power to one or ...

Mon Aug 11, 2025 6:42 pm • 4 Replies • 3272 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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owning a m-f couple

BDSM Checklist

Funny how people are more than checklists

Mon Aug 04, 2025 2:28 am • 7 Replies • 4323 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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BDSM Checklist

Blackmail

I can see how it could work. Suppose for example that the sub posts pictures on kink sites, but there are some they consider too explicit and only allow their Dom to see. The blackmail threat is posti ...

Sun Jul 06, 2025 3:48 am • 16 Replies • 8373 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Blackmail