Aftercare for Dom/mes?

sometimes after everything they’ve just done to you they need to know they’re not a terrible person.

Thisssss! I’ve found this to be especially true with Sadists. Like yes, you just beat the shit ...

Tue Jul 09, 2024 7:51 pm • 10 Replies • 1558 Views

Fearful avoidant attachment or dismissive avoidant attachment

I float between anxious attachment and fearful avoidant, though mostly the latter. Talk about attachment styles seems to be popular these days, though I don't believe people ARE their attachments. For ...

Mon Jul 01, 2024 3:42 am • 16 Replies • 1795 Views

Not willing to compromise on

A smartass with a good ass. ? And a comforting presence.

Fri Jun 28, 2024 7:40 am • 14 Replies • 2043 Views

Sub Frenzy or Dom Frenzy

Basically kid in a candy store effect. WANT TO DO ALL THE THINGS NOWWWWW. Kind of the opposite of sub/Dom drop. But like Topeka said, it's a dangerous space if not taken seriously.

Mon Jun 17, 2024 6:41 pm • 10 Replies • 1727 Views

Question for submissives relating protective tendencies and being in a dynamic

I'm naturally protective of those I care about, even more so if partnered (but not in a possessive/jealous kind of way). For me, a dynamic goes both ways. My Dom would be protective of me, and I them. ...

Wed Jun 12, 2024 11:45 pm • 12 Replies • 1506 Views

Clingy Subs

Here's the real reason I posted it: I am deathly afraid of a Dom coming to think that I am clingy and wanting to take up more of his time than he's capable of giving. Perhaps even kicking me to the cu ...

Fri Jun 07, 2024 6:38 pm • 54 Replies • 6654 Views

Emotions & Catching Feelings

For me personally, in order to really lean into my masochism and submission, I need an emotional connection. BUT... if it's been negotiated to be casual or it's strictly a play partner (i.e. to get my ...

Sat May 18, 2024 3:19 am • 40 Replies • 5488 Views

Squirting

To squirt is to be relaxed enough and stimulated enough to release without judgement

This!!! Also rehydrate afterwards!!! ?

Tue Apr 23, 2024 4:27 am • 23 Replies • 4146 Views

What do you like most about premium?

Is that just a fancy name for messages, or does the "bond" part imply there's something extra helpful about it?

Their instant messaging is called Bond. Not sure why haha

Thu Apr 18, 2024 7:38 am • 12 Replies • 1597 Views

What do you like most about premium?

The Bond messaging. Being able to add photos and such to blog posts.

Thu Apr 18, 2024 5:34 am • 12 Replies • 1597 Views