Chase..?

There is no such thing as 'a sub like this'. She's a unique person.

Calm, confident, honest in your approach. You may simply not be suited. She may be shy of someone who is not experienced. Because ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 10:56 pm • 3 Replies • 1877 Views

To Chase or not to Chase

I will approach someone based on their profile or words in forums /blogs. And that's not usually in a 'im interested in you for a relationship' way. I don't think I've ever aggressively chased and pe ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 6:57 am • 12 Replies • 1985 Views

Leather cuffs - Furr or no Furr?

Mine are not. And I'd not want it. But I really care for the feel of leather. More hygienic for clean up as well maybe?

I find a lot of this modern stuff you get on lingerie/sex shop sites kind of ...

Sat Oct 14, 2023 3:18 am • 10 Replies • 1646 Views

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

Food for thought methinks. X

Fri Oct 13, 2023 4:16 am • 11 Replies • 1764 Views

Slap Happy ?

Thank you Bunnie. X

Fri Oct 13, 2023 3:16 am • 52 Replies • 4923 Views

Slap Happy ?

I don't think you're a troll. I do think you have some serious introspection to do. So that you're able to listen to others' opinions without it triggering you. Without trying to shoot them down.

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Fri Oct 13, 2023 1:39 am • 52 Replies • 4923 Views

Slap Happy ?

CarmenZ,

I've read your profile, and am going to try and look at this from another perspective.

You're new to bdsm, and are very clear on what you don't want for yourself. That's excellent. Ha ...

Thu Oct 12, 2023 11:24 pm • 52 Replies • 4923 Views

Slap Happy ?

Bit of a straw man argument I think. Your point re consent.

You don't like it. We get that. But you aren't listening to those of us who are saying that people have kinks you don't like. And what do ...

Thu Oct 12, 2023 10:56 pm • 52 Replies • 4923 Views

Slap Happy ?

Horses for courses. Totally depends on trust, respect, consent.

Who can ever explain why one has one's kinks?

I'd be squicked and turned off by a cold approach like that, if it came out of the b ...

Thu Oct 12, 2023 10:04 pm • 52 Replies • 4923 Views

Peeling onions, aka scrutinising ogres

Since I've joined the cage, I've seen a few blogs /posts about predators and poor interaction for new submissives entering the arena. Domineering or mysoginistic men masquerading as dominants, women h ...

Thu Oct 12, 2023 8:03 am • 11 Replies • 1764 Views