Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

I would tell him.

In my view he needs full information to make informed decisions.

Thu Sep 21, 2023 2:02 pm • 40 Replies • 5487 Views

Kink Clubs Convo

The first time I went to a club, I was blown away. The sights, sounds, outfits, toys.

It was like things in my head, things I'd read, things I'd fantasised about, all of a sudden came into sharp fo ...

Thu Sep 21, 2023 1:59 pm • 10 Replies • 1554 Views

Your best reply for spam calls.

Funniest response i ever heard was from an ex (male).

Male Cold Caller: Good afternoon, Sir. I'm calling from Evangelical Windows (made up name), may i talk to you about replacement windows for yo ...

Fri Sep 15, 2023 4:48 am • 16 Replies • 1610 Views

For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

As a masochist.. I concur. Though I am Inactive now, back in the day I totally enjoyed receiving discipline, pain and humiliation

Because we can. 😉

Sat Sep 09, 2023 2:06 pm • 37 Replies • 7302 Views

For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

I think I've read this thread carefully, thoroughly.

Is it not at simple as:

Because they can.

Sat Sep 09, 2023 1:31 pm • 37 Replies • 7302 Views

This 3rd Millennium

My vetting process is so strenuous that it's not even funny anymore. I hate coming across male doms that say "I have a world of experience. You should let me help you grow within kink" and when I am a ...

Wed Sep 06, 2023 12:49 am • 9 Replies • 1202 Views

Rituals and High Protocol

It can be weekly scheduled maintenance spankings (Thursdays are a great day for it).

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This made me laugh! 🤣🤣🤣

Mon Sep 04, 2023 1:55 am • 16 Replies • 2871 Views

Could someone explain Old Guard vs. New Guard

Well in my 30 or so years in the lifestyle, I can't say I have heard that one. While I understand where that might come from, I don't believe that to be entirely correct.

Now what I am about to ...

Sun Sep 03, 2023 11:42 pm • 20 Replies • 3252 Views

Rituals and High Protocol

I agree with both of the above comments. Rituals can be wonderful for both grounding, and cementing a bond.

I don't hate them. And I don't find them silly. But they must be an organic part of the d ...

Sun Sep 03, 2023 2:13 pm • 16 Replies • 2871 Views

What do you consider to be "Sharing"

How long is a piece of string?

Sharing could be anything and everything the people involved want it to be. Or not.

You have to discuss sharing, and others being involved. That included play, o ...

Fri Sep 01, 2023 1:49 pm • 12 Replies • 2822 Views