Sexiest songs you know

There are LOTS (and lots and lots) of songs that make me want to fuck. But as to what songs I find to be sexy, that's a (somewhat) shorter list.

I think number one would be Animal Magnetism by Sco ...

Sat Sep 08, 2018 7:51 am • 71 Replies • 26807 Views

2 AM musings about BDSM lifestyle

I have very little to no experience in the lifestyle, however, coming from someone who is primarily submissive, I have to say it isn't only subs that can be codependent. I am actually very independen ...

Wed Aug 22, 2018 5:36 pm • 10 Replies • 8966 Views

Subs with higher sexual appetites than Dom's?

Yeah, for me it isn't about one person (usually). I, historically, go into public and will start fantasizing about a guy pretty much every place I am. They don't even have to be conventionally attra ...

Sat Jul 07, 2018 8:04 pm • 29 Replies • 16914 Views

Subs with higher sexual appetites than Dom's?

This is not just a dom/sub thing. It is a part of what has ruined my (completely vanilla) marriage. And yes, it really hurts, and it's demoralizing. And it is really lonely. So much media atten ...

Sat Jul 07, 2018 3:48 pm • 29 Replies • 16914 Views

Is online domination Planned obsolescence?

Asteria said pretty much everything I was thinking when I read the original post. Except that even if an online only relationship IS automatically temporary, that isn't any different than many other ...

Mon Jun 25, 2018 5:55 am • 38 Replies • 13780 Views

Loss of interest

I'm basing my response purely on my own experience (vanilla, but I think it still applies) because that is all I can do. I would advise you to leave him, unless he can give you an actual reason. May ...

Sun Apr 15, 2018 10:57 pm • 5 Replies • 4908 Views

When The Submissive Does The Leaving: Handling Loss For The Dominant

Okay, I have tried to ignore the post above mine for two days, and fair warning, I'm going to fail. This, in my mind, exemplifies rape culture. I do realize that you are from a different generation, ...

Thu Mar 29, 2018 5:41 am • 19 Replies • 26784 Views

New and needing advice!

Well, I did state that example wasn't perfect. But it is the most relevant real life example I can remember off the top of my head. (It was recent.)

Anyway, the point of my post is to reference t ...

Sat Mar 17, 2018 6:29 pm • 21 Replies • 16917 Views

New and needing advice!

The problem with using a contract to fight a rape charge is that (at least in the US), consent not only has to be given for each time you are sexually active, but it can be revoked at any time. For e ...

Sat Mar 17, 2018 4:12 pm • 21 Replies • 16917 Views

Re: Relationship advice needed

Or does he just want to keep me around for his convenience?

If I were a betting man (although I will admit that there are at least a couple of problems with that), that is what I would guess. Fr ...

Fri Feb 23, 2018 8:47 am • 9 Replies • 6664 Views