Switching

As a Dominant dude, I would NEVER and have NEVER switched my role. Psychologically I do not believe that a true dominant can ever play a submissive role. From my experience over the past 40 years, I ...

Mon Dec 31, 2018 6:52 pm • 11 Replies • 10891 Views

2019 - A year of expectations?

Hello all,
I am known on the Internet and around Chicago as "LatexHer" a married, Dom, Male of a certain age. People have found me on Deviant Art, Flickr, Tumblr, Bdsmr, Yahoo, and many other sites ...

Fri Dec 28, 2018 8:05 pm • 3357 Replies • 1367172 Views

From the woodshop

I have for many years built dungeon toys for the happily deranged! I also use the equipment I build and retail on the girls I have had the pleasure of capturing in photographs! I am known on the int ...

Sat Dec 15, 2018 7:35 pm • 7 Replies • 4368 Views

Why do I cry?

Women CRY! The nature of the beast is obvious to some players who have explored this phenomenon before. I have had several subs break out in tears both during and after our sessions. You are not a ...

Sat Nov 10, 2018 11:16 pm • 24 Replies • 11837 Views

AGE

Hi @ Dom Con.

Interesting post! Age is a state of being often defined by the person period of life. When I was in my mid-teens I once owned a pair of handcuffs, which I took to high school with ...

Thu Oct 18, 2018 7:50 pm • 9 Replies • 6663 Views

Casual BDSM?

I am a happily married Dom! My wife, my slave and I play at times but as we have aged our play is no longer a weekly affair. I have throughout our dating many years ago always had other women availa ...

Tue Oct 16, 2018 6:37 pm • 13 Replies • 14362 Views

New To BDSM

As your relationship intensifies your trust in each other is due to increase and so will your experimentation. Use proper safe words and signals, as you two converse openly about your own personal des ...

Tue Oct 16, 2018 6:24 pm • 6 Replies • 5931 Views

Anyone have ideas?

Get a good quality shock collar! You can either buy one online of upgrade one from your local pet shop to a locking leather one! Used them many times on unruly or reluctant slaves! These things work ...

Tue Oct 16, 2018 6:17 pm • 14 Replies • 14512 Views

How to explain myself to a Vanilla

Vanilla - a flavor often misunderstood, or misrepresented! When it comes to a D/s relationship and in order for it to succeed, it must be fully understood by BOTH parties! One cannot hold a relatio ...

Thu Sep 20, 2018 7:10 pm • 16 Replies • 8109 Views

slave vs submissive...

I wish to refer everyone back to my post in which I mentioned that anyone who abuses their slave will be slaveless!

I have seen many marriages and relationships fail - mainly due to miscommunicati ...

Wed Sep 19, 2018 7:15 pm • 14 Replies • 8482 Views