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Addressing needs as a submissive

It sounds like you need to ask for an Out of Dynamic discussion about your needs.

Do you have a contract? If so, it might be time to re-evaluate and renegotiate it. If you do not, it might be t ...

Fri Mar 14, 2025 6:35 pm • 11 Replies • 7856 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Addressing needs as a submissive

tips and tricks

It is a lot of trial and error learning both of your bodies and rhythms.

Practice can be fun though, and a light hearted approach can help with gaining power and comfort over the present emotiona ...

Sat Mar 08, 2025 6:18 pm • 8 Replies • 3802 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Blow jobs and breathing

Submission or Domination??

Tue Feb 18, 2025 12:16 am • 15 Replies • 4335 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Generally Speaking

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Submission or Domination??

Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

Mon Jan 27, 2025 4:39 pm • 14 Replies • 4016 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

Adding an extra traffic light?

Wed Jan 08, 2025 6:10 am • 9 Replies • 2243 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Adding an extra traffic light?

my thoughts

Wed Nov 20, 2024 1:54 pm • 53 Replies • 9741 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Generally Speaking

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Health, diet, and exercise… What do you do?

Forum Fightclub

Fri Sep 13, 2024 7:55 pm • 187 Replies • 55706 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Generally Speaking

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Forum Fightclub

Fri Sep 13, 2024 10:21 am • 187 Replies • 55706 Views

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SavageLullaby

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Forum Fightclub

Under Consideration

I even saw a guy who had 4 different subs under consideration, like it was an episode of "The Apprentice"

Yeah, that might be a bit of a red flag x.x

Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:58 pm • 7 Replies • 3150 Views

Author

SavageLullaby

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Under Consideration

What they mean (but not always) is the Dom/me can't make up their minds or, in some cases, have a number of s types lined up, and don't want anyone else to have access.

To me, it is a case of s ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:39 pm • 7 Replies • 3150 Views

Author

SavageLullaby

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Under Consideration