Bear competition

I have 3 days until the competition.

I am prepping.

Taking my time.

I have my clothes ready to go and most of my props.

My support folks have been updated.

I talked to my handler- he ...

Tue Oct 30, 2018 8:14 pm • 40 Replies • 16499 Views

Transition from online to RL

It is absolutely natural for people to feel a little guarded when they're headed into a new environment.

I'll give you a funny story. When my love and I move to New Mexico we already had three year ...

Tue Oct 30, 2018 6:32 pm • 3 Replies • 2721 Views

Appeal and Lack of Experience

We all have to start somewhere. For me, it isn't about how much they have it is ALL about how much are they willing to learn?

That is for any Dom/me with any amount of experience.

Never s ...

Tue Oct 30, 2018 7:07 am • 32 Replies • 15658 Views

Laundry list of questions

Really good questions here.

What role, if any, does romance play in your D/s or M/s relationship(s)? For instance, do you find it necessary or perhaps just nice? Or is it absent from the dynamic ( ...

Tue Oct 30, 2018 7:02 am • 7 Replies • 3838 Views

Tips for a first meet

I don't have a lot of rules for meeting people. Usually someone will ask me out for coffee, and my love knows where I'm going.

I have come to the belief that as Community has evolved so has our pre ...

Mon Oct 29, 2018 8:02 pm • 23 Replies • 10012 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

Stop everything until the conversation can happen.


It concerns me greatly that there was a talk agreed to that didnt happen.


You seem to know what you want and need.

Now it's about makin ...

Mon Oct 29, 2018 7:20 pm • 21 Replies • 11525 Views

Protocol of Being a Loyal Sub

This sounds like a lot of drama.

Part of a Dom/mes job--- in my opinion----
Is to create a safe and stable environment for growth.

If you don't trust what's happening with your Dom/me your bes ...

Mon Oct 29, 2018 7:17 pm • 11 Replies • 8482 Views

Questions For People Who Know More Than Me (ie Everyone)

I let myself learn over time.
Slowly.


The biggest mistake I see new Dom/mes do is they take on to much at once.


I always suggest the rule of three to start.

Otherwise as a Dom/me you mak ...

Mon Oct 29, 2018 4:34 am • 6 Replies • 4822 Views

Wired differently?

I suppose the question assumes that others are wired the same.

Mon Oct 29, 2018 4:27 am • 25 Replies • 11467 Views

Bum play & impotence

Try getting hard with the cock ring. Good ones vibrate

Mon Oct 29, 2018 2:48 am • 10 Replies • 8265 Views