Proper Online Etiquette

There is no globally understood protocol for online.

So-- online protocol needs to be discussed with the person.

If someone writes me I don't expect them to know how I personally handle onl ...

Thu Aug 08, 2019 6:03 am • 18 Replies • 8483 Views

Sometimes it just makes me smile

Love those moments !

Thu Aug 08, 2019 5:53 am • 2 Replies • 3317 Views

How Do I Give Back To My Online Dom?

Ask the D type.

What resonates with the people here may not resonate with your D type.

Thu Aug 08, 2019 5:52 am • 9 Replies • 4418 Views

Tasks (Non sexual)

Daily tasks:

Prepare my bath
Set out my clothes
Let out the dogs
Feed the horses
Pack my lunch
Have dinner ready when I get home
Serve dinner
Prep the bed


Clean the house
Take out t ...

Fri Aug 02, 2019 5:38 am • 9 Replies • 14469 Views

Creative Pain

The feather in my cap was doing CBT with barbed wire.

Fri Aug 02, 2019 5:31 am • 6 Replies • 3445 Views

Advice

He just said ok.

To what ?

Are you ok?

Wed Jul 31, 2019 6:45 pm • 34 Replies • 12260 Views

Advice

Debz. I completely agree.

Tue Jul 30, 2019 10:00 pm • 34 Replies • 12260 Views

Advice

Hello and welcome !

If you D type is married you need to decide if
1) polyamory is for you
2) if not being a primary is a long term attainable experience
3) if you can remain stable and balan ...

Tue Jul 30, 2019 1:37 pm • 34 Replies • 12260 Views

Defining sex

Sweet november!

Right !!!


However.

I think mistake aside.
What constitutes sex for you?
I have a rule at the monthly play parties that reads "no sex".
I get asked pretty much monthl ...

Tue Jul 30, 2019 1:31 pm • 10 Replies • 5789 Views

Forced bi - is it ethical?

Oceanic- love the name.

My point exactly.

There is a difference between playing into a desire AND ignoring a hard limit.

What you are talking about is coercion.
In my opinion coercion u ...

Tue Jul 30, 2019 1:24 pm • 13 Replies • 10487 Views