Dommes: What Kind of Subs Do You Like?

Two way conversation.
Drive.
Intelligence.
Sexually experienced.
Experienced in play
Understands service as an external experience.
Emotionally evolved.
No drinking, no using, no smal ...

Wed Jul 10, 2019 3:03 am • 13 Replies • 8796 Views

Something different (updated)

Bear.

Im big, hairy, and hate poo in my hair.

Wed Jul 10, 2019 2:57 am • 31 Replies • 11404 Views

Trust

Yes, but that was just an example.

I see this in a lot of dynamics.

Sun Jul 07, 2019 4:56 am • 14 Replies • 6390 Views

Pet peeve or respect aspect

I have an idea. Stop refereeing to submissives as cows.....

Sun Jul 07, 2019 4:55 am • 18 Replies • 7124 Views

Privilege

I agree 100%


One of the things that absolutely frustrated me when I began BDSM was that the books were all a financial lifestyle that I will never achieve.

People renting out entire movie t ...

Sun Jul 07, 2019 4:54 am • 2 Replies • 2510 Views

Trust

@eren

Yes all of that and more.

My ex did not feel happy and fulfilled unless she was creating chaos. It was her safe space to be in.

Lying, cheating, crossing boundaries, manipulation, ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 9:04 pm • 14 Replies • 6390 Views

Defining slave/Submissive/Bottom

Identities are interesting things. And often times in BDSM identities are determined by looking at somebody who's in a relationship and doing a compare and contrast.


I think I put this question b ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:45 pm • 13 Replies • 6366 Views

Strictly online but your heart wants more

Thank you for posting this. I have often times wondered how people handle that extremely painful conflict

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:38 pm • 17 Replies • 5571 Views

Love vs. Sympathy

So. I don't mean to be an asshole here. But is it possible that he's lying to you?

I bring this up because over the years having watch people who are internet relationships and have the other perso ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:38 pm • 12 Replies • 8381 Views

Is This Disingenuous?

I think this is very good for her and very smart. Especially if she's looking for two different experiences. I don't think it's disingenuous. When you get to know somebody and talk to them all of it t ...

Sat Jul 06, 2019 8:33 pm • 8 Replies • 3744 Views