When is a Dom not allowed to discipline or correct a submissive?

When the D type is wrong to begin with.
As a D type you must ask yourself questions around discipline.

What do you want to achieve?
Are you teaching?
What works with that s type.
Is this abo ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:41 pm • 62 Replies • 12550 Views

Advice

Being new you will not know what you want or what works for you.
Thats not realistic.

Google a bdsm checklist. Think about it.
What do you mastrubate to? Thats a good start.
M/s for the Rest ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:38 pm • 28 Replies • 5271 Views

Brats

1) in NO WAY should you change.

2) be upfront about being a brat

3) negotiate what brat MEANS to both of you



I don't deal with brats. I have no interest. I have however seen people go a ...

Wed Jun 03, 2020 1:55 am • 24 Replies • 10142 Views

Periodic issue with bystanders in my 24/7 Lifestyle relationship

You and him have no right to include others that have not given consent in your dynamic.

Just to give you a heads up we have been M/s 24/7 for 19 years.


You have no idea who you are trigg ...

Wed Jun 03, 2020 1:51 am • 7 Replies • 3750 Views

I'd like to pose a question.

If I didnt ask for them- thats a problem for me.

Not because of their relationship- but because they didnt ask of I was ok with it.


As far as them being monogamous karma that could mean an ...

Wed Jun 03, 2020 1:45 am • 28 Replies • 12672 Views

Submissive or Slave?

We all change and grow over time.
Sometimes we grow into roles, sometimes we grow out of them.

And sometimes we know right off the bat.


My beloved was always slave identified.
I grew int ...

Mon May 18, 2020 10:34 pm • 10 Replies • 5572 Views

Psycologist

Look at NCSF website under KAP

KINK AWARE PROFESIONALS

Sat May 16, 2020 11:08 pm • 5 Replies • 3330 Views

Flogger

Floggers are different then crops.
Both are good for beginners.
They are easy to handle -

For a flogger-

Look at the description, it will usually say- heavy, light, thuddy, stingy

Go ...

Sat May 16, 2020 11:00 pm • 14 Replies • 6778 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

I couldnt stay at my last job after what they said to me.


What did they say?

Your fired.

Sat May 16, 2020 10:56 pm • 477 Replies • 135658 Views

The ^ < v game

^ rsspects love of Shakespeare

< tired as fuck

V Has fun with this

Tue May 12, 2020 7:12 am • 31 Replies • 11314 Views