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Just for fun: Good scene gone wrong...

There was another time me and my partner wanted to fit one last scene in before her parents arrived.

Only problem is I'd forgotten about daylight savings time and all the clocks were an hour behind ...

Fri Nov 08, 2019 6:12 am • 6 Replies • 5256 Views

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Less attractive?

No, your sex seems pretty much hardwired to judge each other harshly. It drives me insane.

So your Dom likes your body and you think your pretty most of the time? I fail to see the problem.

A ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 7:31 am • 47 Replies • 27609 Views

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Less attractive?

My advice would be to stop over thinking things. However trying to talk a woman out of being self-conscious is a futile endeavor in my experience...

For every person that thinks something about yo ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 7:12 am • 47 Replies • 27609 Views

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Less attractive?

That is an impossibly general question with no good answer.

To some people you will be less attractive, but others will love the things you consider 'defects' with an unsightly passion. Personally ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 6:52 am • 47 Replies • 27609 Views

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Punishment for the Disabled

Deny him what he loves is what I think of first.

But you would know him best. What does he hate? What tasks does he find mind numbing-ly boring? What does he fear? If he hates to write make him ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 4:50 am • 4 Replies • 4652 Views

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Zedland

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Femdom

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Punishment for the Disabled

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Just for fun: Good scene gone wrong...

I used to enjoy knife play till one night me and my partner at the time were just finishing up. We were in a lotus position and I was fingering her towards the orgasm I had been denying her all night ...

Wed Nov 06, 2019 4:25 am • 6 Replies • 5256 Views

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Extreme Play

Just remember when it comes to fishhooks, don't get the barbed kind. Cutting them away is a bitch.

Wed Nov 06, 2019 2:52 am • 8 Replies • 3595 Views

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Zedland

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Generally Speaking

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Extreme Play

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I Want To See Your...

So F your first question is the easiest answer. The specifics may change radically depending on your situation but at its heart each negotiations are just conversations. You sit down and discuss wha ...

Fri Nov 01, 2019 8:49 am • 13 Replies • 8241 Views

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Zedland

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Lifestyle BDSM

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I Want To See Your...

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When Black bleeds into white -- (When The Lifestyle bleeds into your Vanilla life)

I am generally of the opinion that certain people don't need to know. However once the cat is out of the bag...then it is often better to replace truth with whatever ghastly lies the person is dreami ...

Fri Nov 01, 2019 5:25 am • 7 Replies • 4915 Views

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Zedland

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When Black bleeds into white -- (When The Lifestyle bleeds into your Vanilla life)

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I Want To See Your...

I always considered it more a reference than anything else. One stop shopping for rules, limits, etc, etc. Also the negotiate helps clarifies aspects of the relationship, provides insight into your ...

Fri Nov 01, 2019 5:15 am • 13 Replies • 8241 Views

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Zedland

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Lifestyle BDSM

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