Asking advise

Well Mack I'll give you the boiler plate response I give to everyone when their partner suggests adding another woman. Listen to Ackbar, it's a trap.

Assuming its not there are a few things to con ...

Thu Dec 09, 2021 1:34 pm • 19 Replies • 4794 Views

Collars

A collar has precisely the meaning you ascribe to it. For some a collar is a fashion accessory for others it a symbol of commitment and for still others it a practical garment for play. Some people ...

Wed Dec 08, 2021 1:57 pm • 72 Replies • 17105 Views

How to initiate with a partner in a non-full time lifestyle

It really just as simple as gauging the mood.

You can set schedules and establish routines (which are great things to do, and important to set aside time for you two to be intimate and not always i ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 1:29 pm • 2 Replies • 1460 Views

Verbal Humiliation

My thoughts on Verbal Humiliation are fairly simple. For some people its almost a role play, they get to be the "wanton, cock hungry whore" and all those other things society says you should not be. ...

Sun Dec 05, 2021 7:21 pm • 31 Replies • 11851 Views

Why does it feel like Tinder?

I think trying to escape a certain amount of "tinderism" on a site dedicated to kink is inescapable. There will be those who are naturally pushy and aggressive, those who want a quick fling, those wh ...

Tue Jul 27, 2021 12:43 pm • 11 Replies • 4820 Views

Boundaries Overstepped?

"Hello random person I just met, yet can clearly see is in a committed relationship with someone else, would you like to join my harem?" Ah...were there perhaps men in white coats looking to return h ...

Sat Jul 24, 2021 11:57 am • 21 Replies • 7588 Views

The fear of Anal Toys

As it always bears repeating LUBE is good.

It is also important to keep in mind that as will all stretching a good warm up is important. Start small and gradually work towards the object you want ...

Fri Jul 16, 2021 12:33 pm • 4 Replies • 1841 Views

My husband isn't a dom...

You could try erotic fiction. Pick stories for him to read that are suitably stimulating but also have some psychological depth, particularly from the sub's point of view. You can also encourage him ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 7:35 am • 39 Replies • 12964 Views

Can you give me some must see movie titles?

History of the World Part 1 and really anything else Mel Brooks.

Mon Jun 21, 2021 2:55 am • 28 Replies • 7165 Views

Can a monogamous person date a polyamorous person?

Can it work, sure. As long as you both understand each other, don't hide things or feelings, and are careful to only spread love between yourselves why shouldn't you be happy? The problems will come ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 2:46 am • 10 Replies • 4093 Views