Just a simple question...

For me, it's about the relationship between partners. It's about sharing trust, comfort, communication, and power with someone I've found worth giving everything to.

Thu Apr 11, 2019 12:35 pm • 17 Replies • 5515 Views

Predatory Behavior

Honestly, it's a problem innate to the lifestyle. Predatory people hear about our community, where people engage in relationships based on conceding control and power, and see it as ripe hunting groun ...

Sun Apr 07, 2019 4:35 pm • 26 Replies • 11179 Views

Sub looking for advice

Like everyone has already laid out, this is totally dependant on what you want, and what your partner(s) want.

As far as the community is concerned, all we expect is that you be respectful to those ...

Fri Apr 05, 2019 9:04 am • 7 Replies • 4189 Views

I need advice

There's a whole lot of great advice in this thread. The thing that stands out most is he may just be a passive Dom. Not every Dom works well in a dynamic where they're the more active partner. Given t ...

Thu Apr 04, 2019 12:08 pm • 10 Replies • 6282 Views

Having to say Goodbye to a Master.

I'm sorry you and your partner have to endure this pain. I also had to say goodbye to my love last June. You're not alone in this pain, and although I have to be honest: it can get much worse, it can ...

Wed Apr 03, 2019 12:34 pm • 10 Replies • 11154 Views

Start implementing a D/S relationship without sex

Something that helps Doms that have trouble directly dominating is to write out their rules. For example, he can write out seven sets of instructions, one for each day, as light or heavy as you'd both ...

Wed Apr 03, 2019 7:54 am • 12 Replies • 11068 Views

Dom not stepping up

Hi Teagan,

There isn't a lot I can add that hasn't been said already by more experienced members of the community.

All I can add from my own experience is that human beings are creatures of iner ...

Tue Apr 02, 2019 11:37 am • 7 Replies • 4791 Views

I'm just so confused

Hi Kathrynn.

These feelings can come off as if they're conflicting, as if one can only be dominant or submissive.

And I'm happy to tell you such is not the case.

That's the beauty of being a ...

Mon Apr 01, 2019 5:34 pm • 8 Replies • 2814 Views

New Baby Girl to Dom Daddy

"What should our relationship dynamic be?"

That's something an internet forum can't tell you. You and him need to figure that out together.

Sun Mar 31, 2019 2:42 pm • 14 Replies • 7102 Views

Moody Dom (or sub)

I don't mean to judge him, as it's not fair with only one side of the story, but it sounds like he's a poor partner. If he's unwilling to hear out your (very legitimate) concerns for your relationship ...

Sun Mar 31, 2019 2:27 pm • 22 Replies • 9878 Views