Kinky and Married | Navigation and Self-discovery

@MasterBear & Fudbar:

Appreciate the responses.

I’ll rephrase to be more inclusive:

• Were you in a monogamous relationship with your current partner before joining this community? If ...

Wed Nov 21, 2018 9:29 am • 13 Replies • 5435 Views

What Does Dom/me/sub Mean to You?

Enjoying the responses so far Its helpful to see how others feel on the subject. When I have more time i may respond myself Haha.

Wed Nov 21, 2018 9:24 am • 7 Replies • 4044 Views

Would you stay or would you go

Not unless, for some good reason, we decided that the online wasn't necessary or was detrimental to our relationship.

Wolfy and I met online, in a forum/chat. Stayed there for a long time after ge ...

Wed Nov 21, 2018 9:21 am • 46 Replies • 14726 Views

What Does Dom/me/sub Mean to You?

Just curious as I learn and grow and see more of the lifestyle. I'm wanting to hear everyone's opinion on this.

If you're a Dom/me, what does it mean to /you/ to be dominant? And maybe, what do yo ...

Tue Nov 20, 2018 6:18 pm • 7 Replies • 4044 Views

Kinky and Married | Navigation and Self-discovery

Just wanting to see, are you looking specifically for non-monogamous couples to answer? My husband and I right now are - I suppose we would be kind of poly-theory like Bear mentioned, though my poly-i ...

Tue Nov 20, 2018 8:22 am • 13 Replies • 5435 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Welcome everyone:)

Sun Nov 18, 2018 11:45 pm • 3043 Replies • 883858 Views

New and Curious

I feel like absolutely you can. My husband and I follow it as a lifestyle, so we are 24/7 into D/s. Doesn't mean we go out of our way to show off what we are doing, but technically it's still showing ...

Sun Nov 18, 2018 5:57 pm • 7 Replies • 4456 Views

When you just want to say “F” it

Burnout like this is normal on both ends of the spectrum imo. And this is where, assuming you have a partner, trusting your partner and being open with them is very important. As a sub, if you can ope ...

Sat Nov 17, 2018 10:25 am • 24 Replies • 8078 Views

Training a sub

Honestly, you cant.

/You/ cant do /anything/ to "turn" someone into something they're not.

They can decide to give up that control to you but it will in no way be you or choice.

That said, ...

Tue Nov 13, 2018 7:13 am • 17 Replies • 11445 Views

Difficulty with kneeling

I'd say that your Dom should be respectful of this issue, and either not require you on your knees like that, either at all or not for long, or s/he should be willing to help you stay comfortable.
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Mon Nov 12, 2018 7:19 pm • 19 Replies • 8452 Views