The finesse.

The staff make no judgment on an individual's decision to keep personal details private..or not. We want the site to be open and welcoming, but also understand that complete transparency isn't always ...

Thu Feb 01, 2018 9:53 pm • 12 Replies • 15146 Views

s-type Sabotage

I have experienced something along these lines. It took a lot of heavy discussion and brutal honesty to get past it. At the heart of it, at least in my case, was insecurity, but it took me some time ...

Wed Jan 31, 2018 5:20 pm • 2 Replies • 4610 Views

Decorum: Does labeling yourself a submissive mean strangers should treat you like one?

Unless it's negotiated and agreed upon it doesn't count in my opinion. Unless you are in a specific environment with D/s roles clearly defined, such as a play party or something similar.

Tue Jan 23, 2018 2:55 am • 21 Replies • 17219 Views

Problems with the Personals

Yes Cap. We do actually read the threads and respond to messages outlining concerns. I promise your messages are being read and that we do look in to every issue brought to our attention. So please ...

Tue Jan 23, 2018 2:49 am • 30 Replies • 26107 Views

forum notification e-mails

I'll poke Cage Monkey and have him respond

Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:41 am • 5 Replies • 8389 Views

When The Submissive Does The Leaving: Handling Loss For The

Dominants are strong and all powerful, right? Well at least WE all are here at THE CAGE! However, every so often we have to go through that very human experience, the breakup. If the submissive is t ...

Tue Jan 16, 2018 5:45 pm • 19 Replies • 32900 Views

Subbies UNITE

Lol...I want to know if anyone did this!

Tue Jan 09, 2018 4:14 pm • 11 Replies • 13912 Views

You Know What They Say About Assumptions...

When I was new to D/s I often made two mistakes. One, I treated submissives like they were all submissive to me, and two, I assumed that if someone identified as submissive it meant they must enjoy h ...

Mon Jan 08, 2018 6:18 pm • 14 Replies • 16391 Views

Profile visible to members only?

Anytime..and chances are if you asked others are wondering so it gives us a chance to remind everyone about what's coming. Feel free to contact us anytime with your suggestions or concerns

Happ ...

Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:19 pm • 20 Replies • 16726 Views

Profile visible to members only?

Hey Lexie..it is something we are working on and we should have up for you this month, hopefully more towards the beginning than the end. We appreciate privacy is a big issue for many of our users. I ...

Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:07 pm • 20 Replies • 16726 Views