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1311

Cage Chat Room Munch

Thank you to everyone who hosted/participated in this event! If anyone wants to host a chatroom event that they'd like to promote on the front page drop me a message please. We'd love to help support ...

Mon Feb 05, 2018 4:45 pm • 61 Replies • 54045 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Cage Chat Room Munch

1312

The finesse.

The staff make no judgment on an individual's decision to keep personal details private..or not. We want the site to be open and welcoming, but also understand that complete transparency isn't always ...

Thu Feb 01, 2018 9:53 pm • 12 Replies • 15882 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

The finesse.

1313

s-type Sabotage

I have experienced something along these lines. It took a lot of heavy discussion and brutal honesty to get past it. At the heart of it, at least in my case, was insecurity, but it took me some time ...

Wed Jan 31, 2018 5:20 pm • 2 Replies • 4949 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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s-type Sabotage

1314

Decorum: Does labeling yourself a submissive mean strangers should treat you like one?

Unless it's negotiated and agreed upon it doesn't count in my opinion. Unless you are in a specific environment with D/s roles clearly defined, such as a play party or something similar.

Tue Jan 23, 2018 2:55 am • 21 Replies • 18218 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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Decorum: Does labeling yourself a submissive mean strangers should treat you like one?

1315

Problems with the Personals

Yes Cap. We do actually read the threads and respond to messages outlining concerns. I promise your messages are being read and that we do look in to every issue brought to our attention. So please ...

Tue Jan 23, 2018 2:49 am • 30 Replies • 27769 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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Problems with the Personals

1316

forum notification e-mails

I'll poke Cage Monkey and have him respond

Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:41 am • 5 Replies • 8933 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Technical Support

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forum notification e-mails

1317

When The Submissive Does The Leaving: Handling Loss For The

Dominants are strong and all powerful, right? Well at least WE all are here at THE CAGE! However, every so often we have to go through that very human experience, the breakup. If the submissive is t ...

Tue Jan 16, 2018 5:45 pm • 19 Replies • 34814 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

Topic

When The Submissive Does The Leaving: Handling Loss For The Dominant

1318

Subbies UNITE

Lol...I want to know if anyone did this!

Tue Jan 09, 2018 4:14 pm • 11 Replies • 14687 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Subbies UNITE

1319

You Know What They Say About Assumptions...

When I was new to D/s I often made two mistakes. One, I treated submissives like they were all submissive to me, and two, I assumed that if someone identified as submissive it meant they must enjoy h ...

Mon Jan 08, 2018 6:18 pm • 14 Replies • 17152 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

You Know What They Say About Assumptions...

1320

Profile visible to members only?

Anytime..and chances are if you asked others are wondering so it gives us a chance to remind everyone about what's coming. Feel free to contact us anytime with your suggestions or concerns

Happ ...

Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:19 pm • 20 Replies • 17769 Views

Author

Villanelle

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Technical Support

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Profile visible to members only?