Brat sub

Rod makes an important point - some people DO enjoy this type of play - the sub misbehaves and you punish them.  If you LIKE this dynamic then go for it.  But if you are getting frustrated and feeling ...

Fri Oct 07, 2016 7:07 pm • 12 Replies • 30334 Views

Solo BDSM

Solo play - like masturbation or self bondage or something?  Can you be more specific?

Mon Oct 03, 2016 9:46 pm • 7 Replies • 11194 Views

Brat sub

This is classic topping from the bottom behaviour and I suspect most dominants have experienced it at one point or another.  When it's happened to me I've found the best way to react is to remove the ...

Sun Oct 02, 2016 8:55 pm • 12 Replies • 30334 Views

hotels

I know this isn't Kent but I've heard of this one and the website looks pretty fun:

http://www.brightonkinkybnb.co.uk/Welcome.html

There's also this sex positive home sharing community, similar ...

Tue Sep 27, 2016 4:26 pm • 1 Replies • 4455 Views

How To Find The Right Sub For You

@Cbtdavid - it depends on what you want.  If you want a domme to fulfill your fantasies and operate according to your script, it's best to get your credit card out and go see a pro.  If you want to tr ...

Wed Sep 21, 2016 12:24 pm • 9 Replies • 9719 Views

I had a Dom boyfriend but I'm not sure what he did was 'righ

First of all, let me say that typical is relative. But some things are universally true.  

I want you to take a moment and click the link below from the BDSM Academy.  It outlines the difference be ...

Sun Sep 18, 2016 1:03 pm • 7 Replies • 10353 Views

How To Find The Right Sub For You

@YoursToTake - interacting in your online and offline kinky social circles is important (like you are here).  Let people see you and get to know you and that you are looking.  Dominants like fun, curi ...

Wed Sep 14, 2016 10:33 am • 9 Replies • 9719 Views

How To Find The Right Sub For You

I think that's a very important point.  It's not enough to just connect in a D/s way.  At least not for me.  I need to be able to laugh and discuss things with my submissive.  Even when I've had a str ...

Tue Sep 13, 2016 12:54 pm • 9 Replies • 9719 Views

How To Find The Right Sub For You

Kinkly has an interesting new article outlining how to find a good submissive:

https://www.kinkly.com/2/9024/sex-tips/bdsm/5-ways-to-spot-a-good-submissive?utm_content=buffer59cc5&utm_medium=so ...

Mon Sep 12, 2016 11:31 am • 9 Replies • 9719 Views

Is there a way to report a user?

Yup what Cage Monkey said - we'll be on it asap

Sun Sep 11, 2016 12:59 pm • 3 Replies • 5443 Views