Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

Thanks for your comment @MasterWitch - great distinctions and explanation of how you view it.  

Fri Apr 29, 2016 12:55 pm • 18 Replies • 19904 Views

So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

Thanks for the thoughtful response!  I agree that getting angry or frustrated when things don't go their way is a massive red flag.  

And yeah, as thrilling as new experiences can be, hopefully non ...

Wed Apr 27, 2016 12:46 pm • 3 Replies • 6126 Views

Public Or Precious: Sharing Your Play In A Public Forum

How do you feel about public play with your partner?  Are you an exhibitionist?  Maybe you feed off the energy of a group?   Or is iyour play too precious, to private to share with others?

Mon Apr 25, 2016 2:34 pm • 1 Replies • 3878 Views

D/s & Co-Dependency

While discussing definitions of BDSM lifestyle in another thread, we touched on the intensity required to maintain a 24/7 D/s dynamic.  How do you keep mentally fit, remain autonomous, and not develop ...

Sun Apr 24, 2016 12:35 pm • 0 Replies • 4358 Views

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

Yeah Rod, I'd agree about the different definitions.  As far as actually living D/s 24/7, I imagine both you and your partner would have to be incredibly mentally fit to manage it without damaging you ...

Sun Apr 24, 2016 12:19 pm • 18 Replies • 19904 Views

Ideas to try to encourage my Wife to be more Domme

I just came across this article from Carasutra you may find interesting.  And surprising.

http://carasutra.co.uk/2016/04/how-do-you-get-your-partner-to-dominate-you/

Fri Apr 22, 2016 12:34 pm • 12 Replies • 40989 Views

Caged In By Stereotypes

So I just came across this article that focuses on stereotypes about what us kinky people like to wear:

https://kinkcraft.co/2016/03/bdsm-black-leather/?utm_campaign=coschedule&utm_source=twitt ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:14 pm • 3 Replies • 5307 Views

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

I've always thought that the idea of a whole lifestyle centered around your kink was a bit fantastical.  I mean, you don't eat your breakfast on a latex covered tablecloth and sit on bondage horses, d ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:07 pm • 18 Replies • 19904 Views

So You're Going To Meet Someone New For A Bit Of Casual Play

Oooh - meeting strangers from the internet!  It used to be SOOOOO scary and even taboo!  But many of us have done it, either for coffee, a meal, or maybe even more.  So here's a thread to talk about c ...

Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:04 pm • 3 Replies • 6126 Views

Portable Toy Bags

I don't have a toy bag but I probably should!  

I love the idea of foam compartments and the toys being somewhat on display. Great idea!

Thu Apr 21, 2016 11:56 am • 18 Replies • 18317 Views