Easing into it

Much of D/s play can be mentally and physically challenging so going slow is smart.  Perhaps a good place to start is doing some erotic reading and and porn watching together, coupled with discussion. ...

Wed Apr 20, 2016 3:03 pm • 4 Replies • 6850 Views

Male Dominants & Misogyny

Are accusations of misogyny the straight,male dominant's cross to bear?  Just as anyone in to BDSM has had to at one time or another explain the difference between BDSM and abuse, do male dominant's o ...

Tue Apr 19, 2016 12:49 pm • 3 Replies • 5207 Views

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

It's  a question someone posed on Twitter that I thought was fascinating:  Is the BDSM lifestyle 'real' and if so, what does it mean? I suppose it could be interpreted as asking if you can live BDSM 2 ...

Sat Apr 16, 2016 1:50 pm • 18 Replies • 19902 Views

Hello all

Very cool!   I love the triangular pet cage.

Thu Apr 14, 2016 8:57 pm • 3 Replies • 4646 Views

Hello all

What kind of items do you build?

Thu Apr 14, 2016 12:17 pm • 3 Replies • 4646 Views

In Praise Of The Pro Domme

This article directly relates to this topic.  Have a read when you get a chance:  http://www.princessmarx.com/authentic-domination-vs-careful-curation-not-your-usual-commercial-dominatrix/

Wed Apr 13, 2016 11:11 am • 2 Replies • 5643 Views

In Praise Of The Pro Domme

As a lifestyle female dominant who is less inclined to the porn version of femdom and more into feminist femled relationships, I've had my issues in the past with the concept of 'pay for play'.  But o ...

Wed Apr 06, 2016 1:09 pm • 2 Replies • 5643 Views

Who Ever Says, "Let's Talk SSC & RACK"

Listening to this with my morning coffee. Interesting stuff

Wed Apr 06, 2016 1:02 pm • 5 Replies • 5425 Views

Mobile cage app

I blame monkey completely!

The site does work wonderfully on mobile devices and our app will make things even better.  Looking forward to it all!

Mon Apr 04, 2016 12:34 am • 8 Replies • 9630 Views

Ideas to try to encourage my Wife to be more Domme

It is a difficult thing for a submissive man to 'encourage' the woman in his life to be dominant.  It can easily veer in to the area of topping from the bottom, or getting in to a "service domme" situ ...

Sat Apr 02, 2016 7:47 pm • 12 Replies • 40986 Views