Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

Hey!
I'm not sure if this part of your original post has been responded to yet so just wanted to add my ideas.

Fantasies that are in your head are legal because this isn't 1984 and we don't have ...

Wed Nov 16, 2022 1:29 am • 34 Replies • 9635 Views

Punishment Ideas?

I don't know if it's been said yet because these responses are pretty in depth but cold showers.

I'm not big on pain and also give a big NO to humiliation or degradation of any kind (even punishmen ...

Fri Jul 29, 2022 10:57 am • 59 Replies • 11584 Views

The term Mommy

I'm not a huge fan of the Mommy/Daddy thing and even when I was a child I never used those terms in a platonic familial way. The terms just kinda have always felt wrong for me.

But I've also notic ...

Wed Jul 13, 2022 10:07 am • 8 Replies • 3074 Views

WIFE

thank you, and being honest, I don't know what I want out of this.

She has all the freedom in the world, do whatever she wants, go anywhere she wants, see anyone she wants, etc and I will not ask q ...

Tue Jul 12, 2022 4:22 am • 18 Replies • 3865 Views

Suggestions on how to dive deeper

Oooooo I am experiencing this exact same problem! I'm going to be reading all of these replies if I can for advice.
But also just wanted to comment to say you aren't alone in your experience.

I w ...

Mon Jul 11, 2022 2:46 pm • 6 Replies • 1159 Views

Dom was present, now ignoring me

Some people treat here the same as Tinder. They get their 'fix' and then lose interest. If that's the case then you don't need or want that kind of person being your Dom anyway.
Either way, just lea ...

Sun Jul 10, 2022 5:13 am • 30 Replies • 5159 Views

Never masturbates !?!

Ok I'm cackling at all the euphemisms for masturbating hahaha.

Also I don't know if it's been said (the comments are 10 pages long and climbing) but there is a small category of people (males incl ...

Thu Jun 09, 2022 3:12 am • 104 Replies • 21427 Views

Exhibitionism

Just reiterating what everyone else has already said but from a different angle (In case it hasn't been said yet). This advice also protects you as well.
You don't want to be stumbled upon by someon ...

Wed Jun 01, 2022 2:23 pm • 23 Replies • 4113 Views

BDSM IN BOOKS?

I might get heaps of hate for this recommendation but the series that got me interested in exploring BDSM further was by the author Cherise Sinclair.
The series is ShadowKittens I think and it's rom ...

Wed Jun 01, 2022 1:59 pm • 5 Replies • 1219 Views