Just 4 fun: Music. What are you listening to right now?

Cody Jinks "Last Call For The Blues"

Sat May 21, 2022 9:40 pm • 261 Replies • 44638 Views

Do True Subs exist anymore?

The only truth within this community for Doms and subs etc etc is that there are no absolutes. Experiences do not define who you are. Your reactions do. And everyone can see how you react. You can not ...

Sat Dec 21, 2019 11:25 am • 70 Replies • 29114 Views

How do you choose your friends? A little off topic for BDSM

Sure I have friends that I love. Friends that I have shared experiences with. Friends that I have things in common with. But....

Being in the early winter of my life I now choose my friends because ...

Thu Nov 28, 2019 5:30 pm • 3 Replies • 3108 Views

Predatory Behavior

Women can be predators also. Just in a different way. I would say the 90% of the women I have met online after a few hours or days of chatting give me a sob story about needing money or they are ready ...

Thu Nov 28, 2019 5:19 am • 26 Replies • 11983 Views

Reconciling a lose of love not understood

Well it is like having a love one ( a wife or child or parent or brother or sister or someone who once had your 6) destroy themselves and ultimately die. And all you did to Try to help was for not

Fri Nov 22, 2019 6:46 pm • 3 Replies • 2628 Views

Reconciling a lose of love not understood

These are not my words but I took them to heart a long long time ago. I still do not understand.

Each one of us here today will at one time in our lives look upon a loved one who is in need and ask ...

Fri Nov 22, 2019 5:15 pm • 3 Replies • 2628 Views

Long distance Dom/sub needs advice on keeping the fires going

I have had two long and I mean long distance relationships. I marred both of them and both became LTR's. Both were before the days of the internet... Snail mail or phone was the standard means of com ...

Tue Nov 19, 2019 5:30 pm • 12 Replies • 10970 Views

I did not mean to post twice

Having a baby (babies) changes a woman's body. The accident was just that and not intentional. The scars are not your fault but you have to deal with it physically or mentally.

OP if you have not ...

Tue Nov 19, 2019 4:34 pm • 47 Replies • 19864 Views

Less attractive?

Having a baby (babies) changes a woman's body. It really pisses me off to hear some men talk about their woman's body after she gave him a child (children).

OP if you have not expressed your feelin ...

Tue Nov 19, 2019 4:15 pm • 47 Replies • 19864 Views

Blocking

Well not here but on some other sites I have found 90 to 95 percent of the subs I have contacted within a few hours or in some cases a few days of chatting hit me up for financial help. I would not mi ...

Tue Nov 19, 2019 3:49 pm • 75 Replies • 20592 Views