What to do?

I had a sub that is Bipolar. On and off her meds all the time. This led to us not being together. If you are concerned about your mental health see a professional in the mental health field is the bes ...

Thu Oct 03, 2019 5:44 pm • 29 Replies • 11880 Views

What to do?

I never set her limits. She does. The only thing I insist on is no substances or alcohol shortly before or during play. It can cause problems.

Thu Oct 03, 2019 5:29 pm • 29 Replies • 11880 Views

It not about physical attraction

Attraction of a potential partner is rooted deep in the human psyche from the caveman days. It is natural. Having said that I know as we probably all have a beautiful woman or handsome man we can not ...

Thu Oct 03, 2019 2:50 pm • 29 Replies • 10810 Views

It not about physical attraction

Attraction of a potential partner is rooted deep in the human psychic from the caveman days. It is natural. Having said that I know as we probably all have a beautiful woman or handsome man we can not ...

Wed Oct 02, 2019 4:08 pm • 29 Replies • 10810 Views

After a year her illness has meant we must part ... but I need BDSM in my life and need to move on,

Our experiences do not define who we are. Our reactions do. That is how people remember us. Your heart felt post has gone a very long way for how people to remember you.You.You are an example. Continu ...

Mon Sep 30, 2019 6:22 pm • 8 Replies • 4480 Views

Would you ever teach your sub how to defend herself in public?

I think carrying in public largely depends upon one's mentality and perhaps personally. I think a person's background has a lot to do with. Also what state you live in. Urban or rural or even the burb ...

Mon Sep 30, 2019 3:31 pm • 19 Replies • 9242 Views

Would you ever teach your sub how to defend herself in public?

@Bear is right. Gotta keep your head on swivel

Mon Sep 30, 2019 2:02 am • 19 Replies • 9242 Views

Would you ever teach your sub how to defend herself in public?

I posted comment twice so that is why you see this

Sun Sep 29, 2019 6:47 pm • 19 Replies • 9242 Views

Would you ever teach your sub how to defend herself in public?

I too am a vet with one foot in the burbs and the other on my little cattle farm. I suspect that we are rare breeds in regards to the topic. I freely admit I could be wrong. There maybe many more like ...

Sun Sep 29, 2019 6:42 pm • 19 Replies • 9242 Views

Would you ever teach your sub how to defend herself in publi

It depends on many factors. Just what preferred method of defense you would teach her. Hers and your mindset on this matter. There is much to consider that I have not brought up.
I do not talk publi ...

Sun Sep 29, 2019 4:20 pm • 19 Replies • 9242 Views