Chubby body.

Lisa --
I am a little surprised that a fairly clean solution for your worry about what potential partners will think of your physical self hasn't been suggested yet....
If you have some nice pic ...

Sat Jun 08, 2019 12:52 am • 24 Replies • 12038 Views

favorite rope bondage

Sorry, can't choose.
If my rigger has a passion for intricate, pretty rope, that's my favorite at that moment.
If my rigger chooses to practice "take down" rope, verbal, or predicament bondage, and ...

Sat Jun 01, 2019 8:48 am • 8 Replies • 3707 Views

How did you find your Dom?

First, I am not sure how one is hoodwinked into this lifestyle, or how compliance would have helped there....

Second, there is a BDSM community almost everywhere. Mostly underground in some areas, ...

Sun May 26, 2019 9:37 pm • 10 Replies • 9650 Views

Conservative Swimwear for Beach Goer???

I assume he is not requesting a Burkina, which is very modest and can be purchased online very cheaply, but just something more "modest". Buy from any of the shops that cater to Northern, Middle aged ...

Thu Apr 25, 2019 1:57 am • 17 Replies • 8693 Views

Anatomy Books for Riggers

honestly if you can take a class, I do recommend you do so. Its a faster way to learn and less confronting than a load of "medical" terms in a book, that will sink in faster with a hands on approa ...

Thu Mar 21, 2019 4:21 pm • 11 Replies • 8410 Views

Anatomy Books for Riggers

Kapit's anatomy coloring book - really tells you all you need. Available on amazon for like $20. Also, practice drawing the paths on a human with a marker- I can tell you when you are not eh nerve w ...

Thu Mar 21, 2019 12:43 am • 11 Replies • 8410 Views

Looking for help

Is it possible in your area for you to attend munches, classes, community events, or find a mentor with a solid reputation? I'd recommend all of these. Also, books! The Heart of Dominance by Anton Ful ...

Sat Mar 09, 2019 5:10 pm • 9 Replies • 5117 Views

BDSM related to healing?

I can play in a non sexual rope fashion with people in the same way I can take a yoga class with them - it's restorative and therapeutic.
I will go places with My Top of the Slash person that I will ...

Wed Feb 20, 2019 3:34 am • 6 Replies • 4177 Views

Is BDSM spiritual for you?

For me, the practice of faith is based in ritual and human connection. It is a part of who I am, it is how I am, and what I do. It is meditative, restorative, personal. Always an opportunity to grow ...

Sun Feb 17, 2019 6:43 am • 15 Replies • 9256 Views

Can you imagine your sub wife doing this on Valentine's Day? LOL

Sub wife aside, this lady is hilarious!! I'm not sure I'd have the courage to pull that off.

exactly. Hilarious, but probably not in my house, ever.
I don't even have a man in my life right now ...

Sun Feb 17, 2019 1:33 am • 11 Replies • 8613 Views