Difference of age

I was the younger one, always.
In my 20's and 30''s, a 15-20 year age gap was reasonable. They had some life experience I did not have, I had some youth and optimism they may have lost touch with. ...

Mon Jan 28, 2019 10:05 pm • 47 Replies • 20618 Views

Is what I'm doing Fair?

@wolfy


Here are the questions:




One- do I need to ask the one protecting you for permission to play?

Two- what are your limits and triggers?

Three- anything medical I need to know? ...

Mon Jan 28, 2019 6:45 pm • 16 Replies • 6815 Views

Is what I'm doing Fair?

Since you're curious to hear what everybody thinks, I will throw my hat into the ring.

I don't chase. I will throw out a hey, you are interesting, line on occasion, but for the most part, my life ...

Sun Jan 27, 2019 8:40 pm • 16 Replies • 6815 Views

Building up our gear

I have a bed from Metalbound, and I love it - for a lot of reasons, but mostly for the overall quality and craftsmanship.
http://metalbound.com/mbf/cages/
He makes cages, and stocks, and beds, so ...

Wed Jan 23, 2019 12:40 pm • 3 Replies • 3935 Views

I am shocked: After one week in a relationship she shares her fetish.

Question for you:
If you continue to squick, and she compromises somewhat in her desires, and you manage to find a relatively squick free ground in the middle - How long do you think you can hold tha ...

Tue Jan 22, 2019 6:50 am • 22 Replies • 10068 Views

STRAIGHT or LESBO

First, straight or lesbo? seriously, you use this term, so I will go with that.
I'll say it depends on the crowd for many women. Some are absolutely heterosexual, and some are straight up homosexua ...

Tue Jan 22, 2019 6:33 am • 19 Replies • 11276 Views

Re: BDSM and Mental Illness

FIRST, I AM INCREDIBLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

Second, I did struggle with the idea of posting this, and have decided to hit reply anyway. I think that we, as humans, are always looking for a "why", ...

Mon Jan 21, 2019 6:18 pm • 8 Replies • 2651 Views

The BDSM Test: Is it Useful To You?

I came up at 100% submissive, brat, and rope bunny - I am probably close to 100 percent submissive once I choose to submit, I'm always looking at the rules, looking at the loopholes, and choosing whe ...

Fri Jan 18, 2019 10:29 pm • 36 Replies • 15068 Views

I am shocked: After one week in a relationship she shares her fetish.

I'll give this a shot. And remember it's been ONE WEEK - seriously - one.

Questions i am having:
- Something i am worried about: right now we are in 'love' but i am very afraid that when this ...

Fri Jan 18, 2019 10:17 pm • 22 Replies • 10068 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

HI,
I am new to the Cage, not new to the lifestyle, and returning after a decade long vanilla break.
I think I filled out my profile information pretty fully.
I'm usually willing to say hello, ...

Wed Jan 16, 2019 5:08 pm • 3045 Replies • 885828 Views