In one sentence, describe what your submission or Dominance is.

This is the best I can come up with:

Being my self in a world that requirers me to be someone ells.

Mon Sep 28, 2020 6:15 pm • 61 Replies • 16174 Views

Music

I listen to music on and off. I like every thing from Bob Dylan, some Jazz, Bluegrass, to Ian Jury and the Specials (please excuse my spelling). A little bit of mettle (a couple of years back I saw Ur ...

Sun Sep 27, 2020 4:37 pm • 15 Replies • 4221 Views

Gang bangs!!

I would like to try a gang bang but at the same time I am kind of terrified. What if I funk it at the last minute or, every one ells will be in great health? I could ask to just watch the first couple ...

Sat Sep 26, 2020 10:19 pm • 13 Replies • 4405 Views

Is there such a role as a "toy"?

1. I have all ways assumed that "toy" refers to a submissive that you can do anything with. I think you would have to be pretty dance to take that literally.

2. I think there is a kink in which on ...

Sat Aug 15, 2020 11:15 am • 66 Replies • 22556 Views

Views on Raceplay

I think you will find groups for race play on Fetlife. A lady, into race play, did once approach me, and a part of me got very excited about the idea. But a bigger part of me was very uncomfortable. I ...

Mon Jul 27, 2020 5:57 pm • 8 Replies • 4511 Views

Orgasm denial.

Maybe I should make my question clearer; First however I hope that this does not come across as kink shaming. I think that everyone should do everything and anything that they want (within obvious lim ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 9:14 pm • 11 Replies • 6184 Views

I'd like to pose a question.

Hope I can say this without causing offence, but if ten thousand people give you the same answer, he is still entitled to his opinion, and you all ready know that.

Tue Jul 14, 2020 12:49 am • 28 Replies • 12720 Views

Orgasm denial.

I have told my, long distance, slave to have as many orgasms as she can, but it seems like this is not really the done thing. Reading an old article titled "my 50 rules for a female slave" I note that ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 2:27 pm • 11 Replies • 6184 Views

What if he's not into BDSM?

I'm sorry but I am very uncomfortable with the idea that you can mould another person into whatever you want them to be. Talk to him about what you want / you're fantasies, but if you do not respect w ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 6:52 am • 33 Replies • 10095 Views

Not sure if I should keep going or give up.

First, looking at your profile, I think that your approach could be improved. You might want to do some research into this.

I might help to realise that online dating is very difficult for a lot of ...

Sat Jun 20, 2020 1:19 am • 21 Replies • 8559 Views