Sleeping Sub

My husband has done this to me quite a few times. It's usually best within the first 2-3 hours after falling asleep as that's when people sleep their heaviest. Get her on her back and start by strokin ...

Thu Apr 02, 2020 2:53 am • 22 Replies • 10895 Views

Sex/Pain/Pleasure

Similar to what skyrich said, I give D signals so he knows when to be rough and when to be sweet.

"I'm feeling regressed today," means I'm feeling young and sensitive, be gentle with me. No hittin ...

Thu Apr 02, 2020 2:31 am • 8 Replies • 3650 Views

Commitment

"Once she finds joy in service, well, the dominant becomes largely irrelevant to her happiness. Which is as it should be."

This concept took me so long to realize. As a young woman, late teens, a ...

Fri Mar 27, 2020 2:42 am • 12 Replies • 5519 Views

What are you doing through the isolation to stop you from going mad?

Walking twice a day for about 20 minutes each. Taking long baths. Keeping myself and the kids on a schedule. (We flourish when we know what to expect and wither and meltdown when it varies too much da ...

Wed Mar 25, 2020 1:35 am • 35 Replies • 12341 Views

Tantrums

I appreciate everyone's advice. Thank you for taking the time to help me.

Skyrich, what if I don't know what I need? Sometimes these episodes are brought on by situations of great sadness or hormo ...

Tue Mar 24, 2020 6:58 am • 8 Replies • 3872 Views

Marriage

If he's a young man, the idea of taking on the responsibility of another person might seem overwhelming. He might not feel emotionally or financially or physically capable of managing his own life, le ...

Tue Mar 24, 2020 5:30 am • 11 Replies • 4577 Views

Marriage

What specifically is he uncomfortable with? Leadership in the marriage? Kink in the bedroom? The labels that come with the lifestyle? Has he expressed why he isn't comfortable with it? My husband stru ...

Tue Mar 24, 2020 5:09 am • 11 Replies • 4577 Views

Tantrums

I've noticed something about my myself. 1) I go through episodes where I feel like I'm spiraling out of control. I verbally and emotionally attack my husband, the people closest to me, myself. It happ ...

Sun Mar 22, 2020 7:01 pm • 8 Replies • 3872 Views

Daddy doms are my favorite flavor

My husband is coming into his natural dominating presence, it's very daddyesque and I love it!

Not too long ago he was leaving for a night shift at work and even though he does this often, for som ...

Sat Mar 21, 2020 6:37 am • 5 Replies • 2748 Views

When did you-

When did you first realize you were into your flavor of kink?

For me, it was a year or so after highschool. A friend's little brother (only a few years younger than myself) who had grown into an i ...

Mon Mar 16, 2020 7:34 pm • 5 Replies • 2857 Views