Where are the pups at?

You don't have to know everything about something to be interested in it, Miki. Sounds like Musetta has a legit interest and question.

I wouldn't say that the pup scene has been "taken over" by th ...

Tue Jun 13, 2023 12:25 pm • 11 Replies • 2287 Views

Feminism: Has it gone too far?

"In my opinion, women now are lazy and spoiled and only whine and complain anymore instead of getting to work. Many women are selfish, entitled bitches thinking that men should do everything while the ...

Wed May 17, 2023 12:55 am • 27 Replies • 5019 Views

Feminism: Has it gone too far?

"In my opinion, women now are lazy and spoiled and only whine and complain anymore instead of getting to work. Many women are selfish, entitled bitches thinking that men should do everything while the ...

Wed May 17, 2023 12:17 am • 27 Replies • 5019 Views

Feminism: Has it gone too far?

I've had to sit on my hands for a little while so that I'd at least make an attempt at playing nice. Luckily, boundforlove was so much more friendly and eloquent than I will likely be, because I'm so ...

Mon May 15, 2023 5:43 am • 27 Replies • 5019 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

(Gonna get a little esoteric here cause I'm a nerd) Yes to everyone saying that no one is "owed" the opportunity to message anyone they want (or even see their profile).

I have nothing new to add ...

Thu Apr 06, 2023 5:25 am • 34 Replies • 6422 Views

Breaking in leather toys

As someone who does leather care (boots, vests, toys, etc) I recommend Huberds shoe grease for conditioning just about anything. I've found that it softens more like a lotion than neatsfoot oil. Use i ...

Fri Jan 27, 2023 9:02 pm • 9 Replies • 1640 Views

What do you think of this & porn in general?

Mainstream "lesbian" porn directed by men is absolute trash and created for men to get their jollies off over what they think we do (and that's fine, women fucking is hot, but let's acknowledge it for ...

Mon Oct 17, 2022 9:01 am • 23 Replies • 4972 Views

Hair down there and beyond

I've slept with a lot of vulva havers and enjoy it all. I actually prefer some hair at least. I'm of the ilk that if you request something of a partner hairwise(in a vanilla relationship) you better ...

Mon Oct 17, 2022 8:53 am • 15 Replies • 3085 Views

Any no sexual contact before marriage Christians?

I grew up Catholic and thought I was saving myself for marriage. Then I came out to myself as a lesbian and realized that it's a lot easier to wait when you're not attracted to men. I respect folks wh ...

Tue Oct 11, 2022 9:11 am • 53 Replies • 7438 Views

Am I too crazy to pursue a life partner in crime with BDSM along the way?!

Hello! I actually found the love of my life on this site and she is both my dominant and fiancee. Sometimes it's hard figuring which "mode" we are in and sometimes I have to pull what I call the "girl ...

Tue Aug 30, 2022 9:10 pm • 10 Replies • 2095 Views