What's In Your Bed?

6 pillows, a book, my cellphone in my hand to feel when He gets home and messages me... most importantly His blanket that I "stole" when I flew back this time. One other thing which only He knows ^_^ ...

Thu Apr 25, 2024 10:56 pm • 21 Replies • 1668 Views

Some real help needed

MissBonnie and LL have done a great job. Though I'd say it could also help getting her to be involved in a community of submissives too. The first clear point which both hit on and is unclear: are you ...

Sun May 15, 2022 9:51 pm • 21 Replies • 5403 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

@ WholesomeWhore thank you. I'd not run into ambiamorous before * thumbs up* I appreciate you adding that to the conversation. I think,for me, it revolves around my honest and sincere desire to see my ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 1:58 pm • 53 Replies • 15482 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

I have always been who I am. My first relationship (13-15) had every hallmark of a fantastic and VERY healthy D/s relationship and every relationship since then has been an effort to get back to that ...

Sat Feb 20, 2021 12:52 pm • 95 Replies • 33520 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Oracle Pollen, I've gone back and reread my response twice I'd ask you to do the same. Can you point to any place where I said a Dominant would compromise their wants or needs such that they are not d ...

Sat Feb 20, 2021 12:23 am • 53 Replies • 15482 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Thank you DA,
I realized in reading it back there was one aspect of my reply missing...
Why would a Dominant WANT to be the non Primary Dominant in a poly situation such as the last I described... ...

Fri Feb 19, 2021 5:28 pm • 53 Replies • 15482 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

"One final note, is I am very curious on how business is done (so to speak) when a sub within a poly Dynamic has involvement with additional Doms, in other words, the sub is a member of two or more dy ...

Fri Feb 19, 2021 5:13 pm • 53 Replies • 15482 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Fantastic forum post. Thank you for bringing your own perspective to it. JuicyJess wrote a fantastic blog post on it a while back which I found incredibly well done.
The thing I appreciated most abo ...

Fri Feb 19, 2021 4:49 pm • 53 Replies • 15482 Views

BDSM slave auctions

@Quirkyrebel... yes... we get it. You dont like the concept of consensual slavery. *slow clap* Now move along. Kink shaming is unbecoming and unwelcome. buh bye.

Thu Feb 04, 2021 11:18 pm • 8 Replies • 11757 Views

BDSM slave auctions

The best way to get involved is to get involved with your local community. In order to be considered for such an event as a participant you have to be relatively well known in your community as capabl ...

Thu Feb 04, 2021 7:37 pm • 8 Replies • 11757 Views