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Is it weird to want a relationship first before diving into dynamics?

No, not at all, and sub to sub, I think outside of professional dominatrix's, that mentality is appreciated. Communities like here, where it's kind of already "known" what intentions are, you can hone ...

Wed Aug 21, 2024 7:55 am • 6 Replies • 2264 Views

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Knightsundere

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Generally Speaking

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Is it weird to want a relationship first before diving into dynamics?

How much should I Share on first contact?

Have you actually been diagnosed with
PTSD ?
Even if not, it's fairly common lingo for trauma in his/my age bracket. Strange question.

It shouldn't be lingo it's a serious diagnosis that shouldn ...

Tue Jul 30, 2024 5:56 am • 22 Replies • 6725 Views

Author

Knightsundere

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How much should I Share on first contact?

Have you actually been diagnosed with
PTSD ?
Even if not, it's fairly common lingo for trauma in his/my age bracket. Strange question.

Sat Jul 27, 2024 11:06 pm • 22 Replies • 6725 Views

Author

Knightsundere

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How much should I Share on first contact?

TPE Discussion

Oh I love this topic, great post

I think it's, at least in my interpretation, a precursor to expected immortality. Which is NUTS to say, but in my mind, if you're giving over total control to s ...

Fri Jul 19, 2024 2:27 am • 12 Replies • 3715 Views

Author

Knightsundere

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

TPE Discussion

Age Is Just A Number

Number is less important than where someone is in life, but I tend to try and stick near my own age since, if you're within such lifestyles that partnership is forever, it wouldn't be super great to b ...

Fri Jul 19, 2024 12:10 am • 41 Replies • 10450 Views

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Knightsundere

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Generally Speaking

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Age Is Just A Number

Thoughts on the new Seeking feature?

Didn't see a thread for this, very sorry if it's meant to be discussed somewhere else.
It's a cool idea, not too drastic of an overhaul. Updating personal ads lent itself to some sort of daily upkee ...

Tue Apr 23, 2024 12:06 pm • 18 Replies • 9898 Views

Author

Knightsundere

Forum

Technical Support

Topic

Thoughts on the new Seeking feature?

Submissive Male Persona

I personally consider masculinity to be a set of traits and principles (persistence, dedication, willpower, stoicism, brotherhood) that are completely compatible with a submissive relationship, so yes ...

Tue Mar 12, 2024 11:03 pm • 15 Replies • 4767 Views

Author

Knightsundere

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Submissive Male Persona

My ex revealed his kink to me and I don't know what to do

aradialspire's advice is very sage, I'd take that. In addition though, polyamorous gangbanging with a hierarchy and a self-proclaimed alpha male situationship is not something for "on the fence"-ing a ...

Thu Jan 18, 2024 12:51 am • 24 Replies • 10419 Views

Author

Knightsundere

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

My ex revealed his kink to me and I don't know what to do

Being told no thanks

Well since i seem to be the devil's advocate, there is another issue. That being if a sub (male) reads a Domme's profile and crafts a polite, considered introductory message...only to be met with sile ...

Mon Jan 08, 2024 2:23 pm • 20 Replies • 8913 Views

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Knightsundere

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Femdom

Topic

Being told no thanks

So… anyone here have advice on how to make your own bdsm toys?

You can make an armbinder out of a pair of sweatpants/pajamas. Thread the head through one leg, pull it all the way down over the neck and under the chin. Put both arms through the other leg (without ...

Fri Nov 24, 2023 11:48 pm • 16 Replies • 9550 Views

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Knightsundere

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Equipment & Toys

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So… anyone here have advice on how to make your own bdsm toys?